Scars and Softness: Redefining Healing and Power Inspired by Sheila Calvin

In this episode, we sit down with Sheila Calvin—author, speaker, and survivor—to challenge the myth that healing must be complete before you can be powerful or purposeful. Sheila shares her journey of living with trauma while leading, teaching, and advocating for others, especially Black women and children. We explore how self-love is a survival strategy, why your voice matters even when you’re still healing, and how your scars can coexist with your softness and strength. Tune in for practical steps to set boundaries, choose yourself, and use your story as a lifeline for others—reminding us all that you are worthy of peace, love, and purpose right now, even in the midst of your healing.

The Greatest Love Story Ever Told | Ericka Alston | TEDxHampdenWomen
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The Greatest Love Story Ever Told | Ericka Alston | TEDxHampdenWomen

Softness as Spiritual Obedience: Reclaiming Rest, Healing, and Purpose Inspired by Tamara Cason
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Softness as Spiritual Obedience: Reclaiming Rest, Healing, and Purpose Inspired by Tamara Cason

Smooth Jazz & Soul R&B 24/7 – Midnight Jazz Lounge | Relaxing Instrumental Vibes
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Smooth Jazz & Soul R&B 24/7 – Midnight Jazz Lounge | Relaxing Instrumental Vibes

At My Divorce Hearing, My Daughter Played A Video — Everyone Was Shocked By…
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At My Divorce Hearing, My Daughter Played A Video — Everyone Was Shocked By…

UNSPOKEN Anti-Aging Secrets Every 1960s Black Woman Knew (That Kept Them Looking 20 Years Younger)
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UNSPOKEN Anti-Aging Secrets Every 1960s Black Woman Knew (That Kept Them Looking 20 Years Younger)

Healing the Invisible Wounds of Racial Trauma in Therapy
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Healing the Invisible Wounds of Racial Trauma in Therapy

When Strength Breaks: Choosing Rest, Boundaries, and Wholeness Inspired by Tahmesha White
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When Strength Breaks: Choosing Rest, Boundaries, and Wholeness Inspired by Tahmesha White

When Your Dream Won’t Die: Audacious Faith and Soft Resilience Inspired by Aleah Wilson
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When Your Dream Won’t Die: Audacious Faith and Soft Resilience Inspired by Aleah Wilson

She Bled Out FIVE TIMES… and Left Her Body
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She Bled Out FIVE TIMES… and Left Her Body

Softness as Strategy: Building Legacy Through Rest, Family, and Boundaries — Inspired by Antwonis...
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Softness as Strategy: Building Legacy Through Rest, Family, and Boundaries — Inspired by Antwonis...

Racial Trauma at Work: What Black Women Are Carrying | In Conversation w. Dr. Connesia Handford
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Racial Trauma at Work: What Black Women Are Carrying | In Conversation w. Dr. Connesia Handford

How To Never Get Angry or Bothered By Anyone ! Maya Angelou Motivation
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How To Never Get Angry or Bothered By Anyone ! Maya Angelou Motivation

Spine Surgeon Drowns for 30 Minutes —Comes Back With a List
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Spine Surgeon Drowns for 30 Minutes —Comes Back With a List

Your Beginning Is Not Your Ending: Inspired by Deon Jones
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Your Beginning Is Not Your Ending: Inspired by Deon Jones

What Women Learned About Men From Men
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What Women Learned About Men From Men

Everyone Is Pretending They Have Money | Just Getting Good
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Everyone Is Pretending They Have Money | Just Getting Good

Do This Once & Toxic People Will Never Disrespect | MAYA ANGELOU MOTIVATION .
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Do This Once & Toxic People Will Never Disrespect | MAYA ANGELOU MOTIVATION .

3 Marriages and 3 Divorces Later, Mother and Daughter Discuss Their Feelings Around Relationships
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3 Marriages and 3 Divorces Later, Mother and Daughter Discuss Their Feelings Around Relationships

The Secret Japanese Habits to NEVER Clean
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The Secret Japanese Habits to NEVER Clean

The Morning Mistake Quietly Aging Black Women Over 60
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The Morning Mistake Quietly Aging Black Women Over 60