Was I Married To A Stranger?

Belle Burden was living the kind of life most can only dream of. Born into a wealthy New York family, she married a dashing attorney who had swept her off her feet. The couple had a beautiful apartment in Manhattan, a summer house on Martha’s Vineyard, three children, and what Belle thought was a happy marriage. Then, after 20 years, with no warning, her husband told her he wanted a divorce. Belle remembers him saying, “You can have custody of the kids, you can have the house and the apartment. I don't want any part of this life anymore.” In a moment, he became a stranger to her. As Belle tried to understand the disintegration of her marriage, she made a decision that surprised people close to her: she shared her story with the world. In 2023, she published a Modern Love essay about her experience. Her new book, “Strangers: a Memoir of Marriage,” reveals more of her story. On today’s episode, Belle Burden talks about the abrupt and difficult end to her marriage, and how that led her to the start of a new life. How to submit a Modern Love Essay to the New York Times (https://www.nytimes.com/article/how-t...) How to submit a Tiny Love Story (https://www.nytimes.com/2018/09/19/st...)   Subscribe today at nytimes.com/podcasts (http://nytimes.com/podcasts) or on Apple Podcasts and Spotify. You can also subscribe via your favorite podcast app here https://www.nytimes.com/activate-acce.... For more podcasts and narrated articles, download The New York Times app at nytimes.com/app.

I Tried to Toughen Up My Son. He Had Other Ideas.
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I Tried to Toughen Up My Son. He Had Other Ideas.

My Husband’s Breakdown Was My Breakthrough
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My Husband’s Breakdown Was My Breakthrough

Oprah with Belle Burden on the Collapse of Her 20 Year Marriage & Her Bestselling Memoir
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Oprah with Belle Burden on the Collapse of Her 20 Year Marriage & Her Bestselling Memoir

No, I Won't Be Your Bridesmaid
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No, I Won't Be Your Bridesmaid

Katie Couric one-on-one with “Couples Therapy” star Dr. Orna Guralnik
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Katie Couric one-on-one with “Couples Therapy” star Dr. Orna Guralnik

Reckoning with the End of a Relationship (Belle Burden)
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Reckoning with the End of a Relationship (Belle Burden)

Ex-Morgan Stanley Bankers: "Strangers" by Belle Burden our HOT TAKE on the Real Finances
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Ex-Morgan Stanley Bankers: "Strangers" by Belle Burden our HOT TAKE on the Real Finances

17 YEARS TOGETHER. HE LIED THE WHOLE TIME
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17 YEARS TOGETHER. HE LIED THE WHOLE TIME

Friends for 16 Years. Lovers for One Night.
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Friends for 16 Years. Lovers for One Night.

every woman needs to read this unhinged divorce memoir
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every woman needs to read this unhinged divorce memoir

Were We the ‘Fat Couple’?
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Were We the ‘Fat Couple’?

The "Open Marriage" to Divorce Pipeline | A Review of Two Articles
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The "Open Marriage" to Divorce Pipeline | A Review of Two Articles

Lindy West Thought She Couldn’t Handle Polyamory. She Was Wrong.
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Lindy West Thought She Couldn’t Handle Polyamory. She Was Wrong.

What It’s Like Being Married to a Stranger (with Belle Burden) | The World's First Podcast
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What It’s Like Being Married to a Stranger (with Belle Burden) | The World's First Podcast

I Tried Everything to Escape My Heartbreak. Only This Worked.
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I Tried Everything to Escape My Heartbreak. Only This Worked.

we need to talk about belle burden's insane memoir again
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we need to talk about belle burden's insane memoir again

How the Sexual Revolution Brought Us Tradwives | Interesting Times with Ross Douthat
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How the Sexual Revolution Brought Us Tradwives | Interesting Times with Ross Douthat

Her Husband Left and Took Everything. Then She Wrote a Bestseller. (ft. Belle Burden)
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Her Husband Left and Took Everything. Then She Wrote a Bestseller. (ft. Belle Burden)

Ask Me About My Dead Son
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Ask Me About My Dead Son

The Woman Who Can Make Affairs Disappear
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The Woman Who Can Make Affairs Disappear

MINI NERVE: Millionaire Belle Burden Wants Sympathy for Going Through a Divorce
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MINI NERVE: Millionaire Belle Burden Wants Sympathy for Going Through a Divorce

The Honest Truth About Being Married and Dating Other People | Ep. 171
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The Honest Truth About Being Married and Dating Other People | Ep. 171

If You Want This Kind of Love, Don’t Expect It to Be Easy
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If You Want This Kind of Love, Don’t Expect It to Be Easy

Bestselling Author Belle Burden on The Mistakes She Made in Divorce and Her Marriage to a Stranger
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Bestselling Author Belle Burden on The Mistakes She Made in Divorce and Her Marriage to a Stranger

Our 34-Year Age Gap Didn’t Matter, Until It Did
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Our 34-Year Age Gap Didn’t Matter, Until It Did

Bookreporter Talks To... Belle Burden
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Bookreporter Talks To... Belle Burden

Why Boys and Men Are Floundering, According to Relationship Therapist Terry Real
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Why Boys and Men Are Floundering, According to Relationship Therapist Terry Real

On Our Third Date, I Asked for a Joint Bank Account
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On Our Third Date, I Asked for a Joint Bank Account

'Strangers' Author Belle Burden on Trying to See Red Flags that Led to Her Sudden Traumatic Divorce
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'Strangers' Author Belle Burden on Trying to See Red Flags that Led to Her Sudden Traumatic Divorce

Zendaya & Robert Pattinson on Finding Their Partners: "You Know The Second You Meet Them"
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Zendaya & Robert Pattinson on Finding Their Partners: "You Know The Second You Meet Them"