Toxic Sotho Helpers | South African Women Share Their Stories | Abo Auntie

Toxic Sotho Helpers | South African Women Share Their Stories | Abo Auntie A woman opens her helper’s bag and finds muti, stolen underwear, and food she didn’t buy. It sounds like a wild TikTok — but for many South African women, this is real life. From manipulation to sneaky affairs with husbands, this essay breaks down the toxic dynamics some helpers bring into the home… and why it’s a tale as old as time. toxic helpers South Africa, domestic worker drama, South African TikTok stories, helpers and husbands, cheating domestic workers, South African household gossip, TikTok house help stories, stolen items by helpers, muti in the house, Abo Auntie