Why Your Therapist Is Making Your Marriage Worse (And What Actually Works) | E326 Lila Rose Show

Meygan and Casey Caston spent the first 3 years of their marriage actively unhappy. One day, Meygan came home one day and said something that made Casey’s jaw drop, and their marriage completely changed. Today they’re sharing everything they’ve learned from 20 years of marriage and coaching thousands of couples to not just tolerate but actually enjoy marriage. Their Instagram account: https://www.instagram.com/marriage365... NEW: Check out our Merch store! https://shop.lilaroseshow.com/ Join our new Patreon community!   / lilaroseshow   - We'll have BTS footage, ad-free episodes, and early access to our upcoming guests. A big thanks to our partner, EWTN, the world’s leading religious network! Discover news, entertainment and more at https://www.ewtn.com/ Check out our Sponsors: -Hallow: https://www.hallow.com/lila Enter into prayer more deeply this season with the Hallow App, get 3 months free by using this link to sign up! -We Heart Nutrition: https://www.weheartnutrition.com/ Get high quality vitamin supplements for 20% off using the code LILA. -Good Ranchers: https://go.goodranchers.com/lila Purchase your American Meat Delivered subscription today and get a free add-on of beef, chicken, or salmon! Use code LILA for $100 off first three orders!  -EveryLife Women: https://www.everylife.com/lila Buy diapers and women’s health products from an amazing company and use code LILA10 to get 10% off! 00:00:00 - Intro 00:00:58 - “We hated each other” 00:02:02 - The #1 advice that helps couples: 00:04:03 - Reconciliation is ESSENTIAL 00:07:06 - Healing from hurt is negotiable starting point intro - number 1 00:07:54 - What if my spouse isn’t willing? 00:12:18 - What about narcissism? 00:18:10 - Biggest lie men believe? 00:21:34 - Biggest lie women believe? 00:23:31 - This is the toxic cycle: 00:29:37 - Why therapy makes things worse: 00:33:20 - Why mentors and REAL friends are essential 00:39:30 - Couples who live in pain for decades 00:40:54 - All marriage problems are essentially the same 00:43:15 - Couples who COULDN’T fix their problems: 00:45:41 - Mental illness and ADHD 00:48:49 - Should we aim to fix ALL problems? 00:51:18 - Is marriage supposed to be hard? 00:54:50 - “Romance” makes you miss red flags 00:58:15 - Sex in marriage 00:59:25 - Emotional abuse 01:03:11 - What if you don’t like your spouse? 01:05:48 - Crazy comeback stories: 01:08:26 - Alcohol 01:09:57 - How to get unstuck from any situation 01:13:01 - This changes everything: 01:21:40 - Have an internal timeline 01:22:57 - Withholding sex during fights? 01:24:28 - What boundaries should NOT be 01:27:08 - Fake it til you make it? 01:31:00 - What does a thriving marriage look like day-to-day? 01:35:48 - How to pursue your spouse daily? 01:36:56 - Navigating hurt and bad in-laws 01:39:37 - Advice for newly weds 01:40:49 - How to date today? (F.A.S.T.)