Stop Saying This to Neurodivergent Kids (It Contributes to Depression)

At 50 years old, I still feel physically sick when I hear these two words. My throat closes up, my chest tightens, and I'm instantly transported back to being that confused, overwhelmed neurodivergent kid who could never seem to get things right. Those words? "Should be." In this vulnerable and eye-opening episode, I share how "should be" thinking is accidentally creating mental health crises in our ADHD and autistic children - and what to do instead. 🎯 Who This Episode Is For: • Parents of neurodivergent children struggling with self-esteem • Therapists and educators working with ADHD/autistic kids • Adults who grew up with "should be" messages and want to break the cycle • Anyone who wants to create deeper connection and understanding with neurodivergent children 🔥 What You'll Learn: • The Hidden Damage of "Should Be" Language • Why "should be" is really just a comparison in disguise • How these seemingly innocent words create lasting shame and self-loathing • The direct connection between "should be" thinking and depression in neurodivergent kids • Why comparison-based expectations make children more vulnerable to mental health struggles • How to build your child's/student's/client's sense of inherent worth • Teaching self-advocacy while breaking the "should be" cycle Sincerely, Holly Blanc Moses - The Mom/Neurodivergent Therapist ⭐️ Click here for free resources, trainings, and continuing education- https://www.hollyblancmoses.com/connect 🌟 Get your FREE GET TO KNOW MY CHILD SNAPSHOT Set your child up for success by providing essential information at a glance! This one-page snapshot takes less than 5 minutes to complete and helps anyone supporting your child, including camp counselors, coaches, teachers, therapists, sitters, and more. • Parents click here - https://www.hollyblancmoses.com/opt-i... ⭐️ Get your FREE BEHAVIOR DETECTIVE GUIDE To support neurodivergent children and teens, we need to understand their unique needs and honor their experiences. The Behavior Detective Guide breaks down information to help identify barriers and patterns, leading to neurodiversity affirming approaches. • Parents click here - https://www.hollyblancmoses.com/opt-in • Therapists click here - https://www.hollyblancmoses.com/opt-i... • Educators click here - https://www.hollyblancmoses.com/opt-i... ⭐️ Get your FREE SOCIAL SUCCESS GUIDE Social interaction can be confusing and anxiety-provoking for neurodivergent children and teens. The Social Success Guide provides practical strategies to support social confidence and authenticity. • Parents click here - https://www.hollyblancmoses.com/opt-i... • Therapists click here - https://www.hollyblancmoses.com/opt-i... • Educators click here - https://www.hollyblancmoses.com/opt-i... ⭐️ Hey Therapists! Come on over for NEURODIVERSITY-AFFIRMING CONTINUING EDUCATION Enhance your therapeutic approach with our affirming and engaging trainings while earning CE credits to fulfill your professional development requirements, as our courses are approved by the NBCC. CLICK HERE - https://www.hollyblancmoses.com/cetra... ⭐️ Welcome to our PARENT MASTERCLASSES WITH Q&A Each live class is packed with supportive strategies on the topics parents want most. Can't make it live? No worries, because you'll get the replay. Sign up to be the first to know when the next masterclass is scheduled. CLICK HERE - https://www.hollyblancmoses.com/neuro... ❤️ You are invited to join my FACEBOOK GROUPS for support & education. See you there:) ➡️ Parents, come on over and join the Autism ADHD Facebook Group for Parents -   / wireddifferentlygroup   ➡️ Therapists & educators, join the Facebook Group for professionals -   / professionalsforwdchildren   ..... All content provided is protected under applicable copyright, patent, trademark, and other proprietary rights. All content is provided for informational and educational purposes only. No content is intended to be a substitute for professional medical or psychological diagnosis, advice, or treatment. The information provided does not create an agreement for service between Holly Blanc Moses, Crossvine Clinical Group, Crossvine Counseling, Holly Blanc Moses, LLC, and the recipient. Consult your physician regarding the applicability of any opinions or recommendations with respect to your symptoms or medical condition, or the symptoms or medical condition of another person. Children or adults who show signs of dangerous behavior toward themselves and or others should be placed immediately under the care of a qualified professional.