2. Understanding the Trauma of Narcissistic Mother Wounds

Childhood emotional abandonment is a painful reality for daughters with narcissistic mothers. But as an adult now, you might not even be aware that it is a considered to be a childhood trauma. You might be having a hard time connecting the struggles you're having today to your mother wounds from childhood. In this episode, I am working to define trauma for you so that you can understand it and begin to feel more ownership over it. In an in depth discussion, I'll work to increase your understanding of how your trauma is showing up in your body, how you might be affected by PTSD or cPTSD, and I'll introduce you to ways you can help calm your body down and get out of fight, flight, or freeze. We'll also explore practical strategies for managing trauma and building resilience, including mindfulness and self-compassion. Whether you're a daughter of a narcissistic mother or simply interested in the topic, this episode is a must-listen for anyone seeking to understand the power of trauma and how to begin healing. Have a question for the show about your own journey with narcissistic abuse recovery? Send a recorded voice memo or email to: [email protected] If you value Mother Mayhem and have found the show helpful in your trauma recovery, consider becoming a sponsor by purchasing 'Simple Scripts for Saying Hard Things.' (https://heathergrayconsulting.mvsite....) This resource provides the right words for difficult conversations, covering all aspects of life, love, and work.

Psychopath Expert: “If You Notice THESE Signs, You’re Already Being Manipulated” | Dr. Peter Salerno
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Psychopath Expert: “If You Notice THESE Signs, You’re Already Being Manipulated” | Dr. Peter Salerno

15.  Enabling Father: An Additional Trauma for Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers
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15. Enabling Father: An Additional Trauma for Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers

129. Healing from cPTSD When You Don’t Have Memories
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129. Healing from cPTSD When You Don’t Have Memories

Meet one of the many personalities of a woman with dissociative identity disorder | 60 Minutes Aus
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Meet one of the many personalities of a woman with dissociative identity disorder | 60 Minutes Aus

102. Choosing Yourself When Your Narcissistic Mother Demands Loyalty
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102. Choosing Yourself When Your Narcissistic Mother Demands Loyalty

Why Narcissists MUST Abuse YOU (Skopje Seminar Opening, May 2025)
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Why Narcissists MUST Abuse YOU (Skopje Seminar Opening, May 2025)

104. “Was It Really That Bad?”: Remembering Childhood Trauma Later Doesn’t Make It Less Real
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104. “Was It Really That Bad?”: Remembering Childhood Trauma Later Doesn’t Make It Less Real

How to Spot the Three Es of Narcissism. Jill Wise (The Enlightened Target)
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How to Spot the Three Es of Narcissism. Jill Wise (The Enlightened Target)

Never Break an Empath… The Consequences Are Brutal
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Never Break an Empath… The Consequences Are Brutal

112. Finding Yourself After Narcissistic Abuse: Healing Identity, Rage, and Grief
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112. Finding Yourself After Narcissistic Abuse: Healing Identity, Rage, and Grief

139. When Your Mother Chooses Chaos: Attachment Trauma, Toxic Family Systems & Breaking the Cycle
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139. When Your Mother Chooses Chaos: Attachment Trauma, Toxic Family Systems & Breaking the Cycle

99. No Contact, Guilt, and Family Fallout: How to Finally Set the Boundary
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99. No Contact, Guilt, and Family Fallout: How to Finally Set the Boundary

What Does a Narcissist Expect During No Contact With You? | Dr. Ramani
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What Does a Narcissist Expect During No Contact With You? | Dr. Ramani

101. When Your Whole Life Was a Lie: Healing from Gaslighting, Isolation, and Betrayal
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101. When Your Whole Life Was a Lie: Healing from Gaslighting, Isolation, and Betrayal

5 signs your friend is a narcissist
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5 signs your friend is a narcissist

137. Why You Still Feel Unsafe After Going No Contact With a Narcissistic Mother
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137. Why You Still Feel Unsafe After Going No Contact With a Narcissistic Mother

The Most Effective Response To A Narcissist's False Accusations
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The Most Effective Response To A Narcissist's False Accusations

116. Healing the Mother Wound Feels Endless & Often Sucks. Keep Going.
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116. Healing the Mother Wound Feels Endless & Often Sucks. Keep Going.

What happens When a Narcissist Finally has to Face Consequences?
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What happens When a Narcissist Finally has to Face Consequences?

117. How to Rebuild Self Trust After Narcissistic Abuse
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117. How to Rebuild Self Trust After Narcissistic Abuse