武志紅：父母控制欲正在給孩子制造「死能量」【下集 往期爆款】Takeshi Hong: Parental control is creating ‘dead energy’ in children

武志紅，心理諮詢師。多年前，武志紅在他的代表作《爲何家會傷人》中對“天下無不是的父母”這一宣言發出挑戰，那個曾追問“原生家庭對個人存在何種影響”的思考者，如今仍在心理領域執着深耕。他不僅在諮詢中直面父母用菜刀威脅孩子等極端案例，而且認爲控制型家庭體現在生活的每個細節之中，這類父母會爲孩子長期製造“死能量”。當家長堅持“心理問題再嚴重也得上學”時，他發出的“愛的質疑”讓部分人驚醒。就像他常說的“心理學的根本力量在於覺知”，他用真實案例爲迷茫者搭建了覺知自我的階梯。第 834位受訪者，武志紅，心理諮詢師。Wu Zhihong, Counselor. Years ago, Wu Zhihong challenged the declaration that “there is no such thing as a bad parent” in his masterpiece “Why Family Hurts”, and the thinker who once asked “what kind of influence does the family of origin have on the individual” is still practicing in the field of psychology. He not only confronts extreme cases such as parents threatening their children with kitchen knives in counseling, but also believes that controlling families are reflected in every detail of life, and that these parents create “dead energy” for their children in the long run. When parents insisted that they should go to school even if they had serious psychological problems, his “questioning of love” woke up some people. As he often says, “The fundamental power of psychology lies in awareness,” and he uses real-life examples to build a ladder of self-awareness for those who are lost. The 834th interviewee, Wu Zhihong, counselor. #凉子 #访谈 #控制欲 #能量 #教育