Why I Won't Leave My Kids Cash

If your children inherited a million dollars tomorrow, would you want them to receive a check—or a trusted guide? In this episode, Jill pulls back the curtain on her own family's estate plan and walks you through exactly what would happen if she and Jeremy died while their children were still young. Using their own Wills, life insurance beneficiary designations, and testamentary trusts as real-life examples, she translates complicated legal language into plain English so you can understand how trusts actually work—and why they aren't just for wealthy families. Along the way, Jill explains why she intentionally chose to leave her children's inheritance in trust, how trustees make financial decisions, and why thoughtful estate planning is really about giving your family guidance when you can no longer be there yourself. What You’ll Learn in This Episode • Why trusts aren't just for wealthy families. • What your Will actually does if you have minor children. • Why the person raising your children isn't always the best person to manage their inheritance. • How life insurance beneficiary designations work alongside your estate plan. • Why naming your estate as a contingent beneficiary can be intentional. • What probate looks like when a life insurance policy is payable to your estate. • The difference between specific gifts and your residuary estate. • How testamentary trusts are created through a Will. • What a trustee actually does. • What “HEMS” (Health, Education, Maintenance and Support) means in a trust. • Why “sole and absolute discretion” gives trustees flexibility rather than confusion. • What a “disinterested trustee” is and why one may be the best person to make major financial decisions. • How trusts can help pay for extraordinary opportunities like: o Buying a first home o Starting a business o Professional education o Wedding expenses • Why trusts are designed to help beneficiaries enjoy their inheritance, not simply preserve it. Resources & Links Episode 19: Why You Need (or Don’t Need) a Trust: https://www.deathreadiness.com/podcas... Tennessee Estate Planning: https://www.deathreadiness.com/estate... Tennessee Probate: https://www.deathreadiness.com/probat... Get your copy of The Death Readiness Playbook: https://www.deathreadiness.com/playbook More episodes and resources: https://deathreadiness.com Ask a question for Tuesday Triage here: https://deathreadiness.com/tuesdaytriage About the Podcast The Death Readiness Podcast helps families navigate wills, trusts, probate, and end-of-life preparation, without the legal jargon. Hosted by Jill Mastroianni, estate planning attorney and creator of The Death Readiness Playbook. Disclaimer This podcast is for educational and entertainment purposes only and does not constitute legal advice. Consult a licensed attorney in your state for guidance tailored to your situation.