結婚相談所で出会った夫|年収はあったのに、結婚した翌月に青ざめた話 #34

Today, I'm going to share a somewhat shocking story about my marriage. I met my husband through a matchmaking service, and since he had a decent income, I just assumed he was a reliable person. But then, shortly after we got married, my husband handed me his bankbook, and when I went to update it... the balance was shockingly low. I couldn't believe it; our savings were practically zero. Honestly, I seriously considered divorce. But back then, divorce was a high hurdle, and my mother told me to "get out of the house," so I couldn't easily move. In the end, I braced myself and decided "I have to make it work." It's been 24 years since then. I checked the bankbook line by line, implemented an allowance system, and slowly rebuilt our finances... and now, I've reached a point where I think, "Well, this is okay." How are things with money in your households? If you have any stories about "my husband is like this too...", please share them in the comments. ⬇️Related Video My story of dating 24 years ago when my mother told me to "get out when you're 30" and I rushed to a marriage agency #17    • 母に「30歳で出て行け」と言われ、結婚相談所に駆け込んだ24年前の婚活話 #17   Video editing: Vrew --- 【About the Channel】 This channel is where Wakocchi, a housewife in her late 50s/early 60s, casually talks about her daily thoughts. Money and life before and after retirement, marriage, menopause, how to live from now on... I hope that women of the same generation will think, "I understand that!" -- #HousewifeInHerLate50s #HousewifeInHer50s #Marriage #MoneyTalk #Marriage #ZeroSavings

なぜ上手くいかない?婚活でつまずく人の共通点とは!?実際にあった失敗談をもとに婚活のプロ 植草先生が成婚へ導く「実践テクニック」を徹底伝授!
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なぜ上手くいかない?婚活でつまずく人の共通点とは!?実際にあった失敗談をもとに婚活のプロ 植草先生が成婚へ導く「実践テクニック」を徹底伝授!

国際結婚在米主婦の告白-離婚できなかった理由
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国際結婚在米主婦の告白-離婚できなかった理由

[Life Advice] A 69-year-old cuts through the noise💥💓 Can you forgive a boyfriend/husband who like...
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[Life Advice] A 69-year-old cuts through the noise💥💓 Can you forgive a boyfriend/husband who like...

【結婚しないならFIREは可能】非婚化でFIREが増加する/独身の上位30%に可能性あり?/若者が結婚しない理由/「子育て3000万円」の重圧/「隠れFIRE予備軍」が増加中【PIVOT MONEY】
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【結婚しないならFIREは可能】非婚化でFIREが増加する/独身の上位30%に可能性あり?/若者が結婚しない理由/「子育て3000万円」の重圧/「隠れFIRE予備軍」が増加中【PIVOT MONEY】

The day I spotted that celebrity I’d always dreamed of seeing in person on a summer evening #35
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The day I spotted that celebrity I’d always dreamed of seeing in person on a summer evening #35

戦後最大の結婚危機!?  婚活のプロ 植草美幸先生から令和の婚活でしくじらない考え方を学ぶ!!
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戦後最大の結婚危機!? 婚活のプロ 植草美幸先生から令和の婚活でしくじらない考え方を学ぶ!!

The story of how my frizzy hair, which I thought I'd given up on, was saved [38 years of salon ho...
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The story of how my frizzy hair, which I thought I'd given up on, was saved [38 years of salon ho...

2回の適応障害で社会人絶望したけど介護転職で幸せになった人の話
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2回の適応障害で社会人絶望したけど介護転職で幸せになった人の話

[51-year-old single woman who quit her job] Talking about the future
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[51-year-old single woman who quit her job] Talking about the future

マッチングアプリで結婚ってどうなの?今の旦那を選んだ決め手とやってみて分かったことをお話するね
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マッチングアプリで結婚ってどうなの?今の旦那を選んだ決め手とやってみて分かったことをお話するね

My Honest Thoughts on Marrying Someone with Good Credentials
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My Honest Thoughts on Marrying Someone with Good Credentials

【どんどん心が荒んでいく…】モヤモヤが募り過ぎて壊れそうな自分/もっと優しくなりたい…/最重度知的障害児育児記録vol.
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【どんどん心が荒んでいく…】モヤモヤが募り過ぎて壊れそうな自分/もっと優しくなりたい…/最重度知的障害児育児記録vol.

【年金額は?】○○がありますからね…64歳女性に年金インタビュー
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【年金額は?】○○がありますからね…64歳女性に年金インタビュー

【悲報】5人家族、借金あるのに夫が突然無職になりました。#5
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【悲報】5人家族、借金あるのに夫が突然無職になりました。#5

【アラフィフ・バツイチ】マッチングアプリで気づいてしまった。優しい返信、全部AIだった
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【アラフィフ・バツイチ】マッチングアプリで気づいてしまった。優しい返信、全部AIだった

もう若くないんだから、今やりたいことを思いっきりやろうぜ【アラ還主婦のひとりごと】#33
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もう若くないんだから、今やりたいことを思いっきりやろうぜ【アラ還主婦のひとりごと】#33

60代一人暮らし|マンション購入後、住んで初めて気づいたこと
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60代一人暮らし|マンション購入後、住んで初めて気づいたこと

【年金いくら?】「1日の食費がスゴイ...その驚きの節約術とは?老後の年金生活」年金インタビュー総集編
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【年金いくら?】「1日の食費がスゴイ...その驚きの節約術とは?老後の年金生活」年金インタビュー総集編

Even Though My Egypt Trip Videos Were All Deleted, I Still Can't Forget This #32
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Even Though My Egypt Trip Videos Were All Deleted, I Still Can't Forget This #32

リアルすぎるwみんなの世帯年収を教えて!住宅ローン・子供の人数・貯金額…人には聞けない経験談
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リアルすぎるwみんなの世帯年収を教えて!住宅ローン・子供の人数・貯金額…人には聞けない経験談