#87: 🙏🏼 From “Why Me?” to “What Can I Learn?”

In this episode of Messy on Purpose, Fylisha and Lee talk about the mindset shift that can completely change how you experience life: Going from “Why me?” to “What can I learn from this?” They dive into why even the darkest, hardest seasons can carry lessons—if we’re willing to stop, look inward, and be honest about what life might be trying to show us. Sometimes the same situations keep repeating because there’s a lesson we haven’t learned yet. Maybe it’s time to change your environment. Maybe it’s the people you keep around. Maybe it’s a habit, a mindset, or a pattern you keep choosing without realizing it. This conversation is about: Taking responsibility for your growth Recognizing repeated patterns Changing your perspective when life feels heavy Learning from hard seasons instead of staying stuck in them Choosing action over self-pity Life isn’t always easy, fair, or pretty—but how you look at it matters. Because sometimes the lesson keeps showing up until you finally choose to learn it.