My Mom Chose Her Marriage with My Cheating Dad Over Me

In this Q&A episode, Whitney answers two questions from people trying to figure out where acceptance ends and cutting off begins. First, a woman who thought her mom was finally going to leave her father after a major blowup involving favoritism, triangulation, and infidelity, only to watch her mom stay and start calling her the difficult one instead. Second, a new mother whose parents made her postpartum period worse instead of better, and who's now wondering whether sending a birthday card is worth it after a year and a half of near silence. Whitney Goodman is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) and the founder of Calling Home, a membership community that helps people navigate complex family dynamics and break harmful cycles. Have a question for Whitney? Send a voice memo or email to [email protected] Join the Family Cyclebreakers Club: https://callinghome.co Follow Whitney on Instagram | sitwithwhit Follow Whitney on YouTube | @whitneygoodmanlmft Order Whitney's book, Toxic Positivity: https://sitwithwhit.com/toxic-positivity Sign up for updates on Whitney's new book: https://cmnyyv4kpyt.typeform.com/to/P... This podcast is for informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional mental health advice.

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She Found a Love Letter in His Jacket Pocket After 22 Years of Marriage

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When is it Time to Accept That Your Parents Are Not Who You Needed Them to Be?

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Neglectful, Rejecting, and Cruel Mothers

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My Wife: "I'm Spending Christmas With My Ex's Family, You Can Stay With Yours"—Me: “Have Fun”

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Bestselling Author Belle Burden on The Mistakes She Made in Divorce and Her Marriage to a Stranger

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How Old Money Knows You’re Not One of Them? | Private vs Public School Debate

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The hundred-million dollar rort targeting the elderly | 60 Minutes Australia

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An Estranged MIL Meets Women Who've Been in Her Daughter-in-Law's Shoes | Ep. 84

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Her Mother and Grandmother Said Nothing. Belle Burden Broke the Silence.

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"I'm Glad My Mom Died" By Jeanette McCurdy, Emotionally Immature Moms, Boundary-Ignoring Gifts

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Is Estrangement a Luxury for People with Money?

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Addressing the Rumours About My Marriage

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When Your Family Doesn’t Know How to Listen (And Maybe You Don’t Either)

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Man pays for an expensive dinner date and gets ghosted by single mom

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How To Raise An Emotionally Mature Child - Dr. Lindsay C. Gibson, Academy Of Self Help

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Why Are Birth Rates Falling? The Real Cost of Having Children | Dr Paul Morland | It's All Relative

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Katie Couric one-on-one with “Couples Therapy” star Dr. Orna Guralnik

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The Parent Who Never Changes and the Parent Who Just Might

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My Husband Walked Out And Left Me Drowning In Debt