完璧じゃない自分でいい｜できない自分を責めなくなる“不完全の美”の話

This time, I talked about the theme, "Don't think of yourself as a failure for not being able to do things." Do you ever feel like you have to do everything perfectly? Do you have to do everything properly? I'm ashamed of myself for not being able to do things. I don't want to show my inferiority to others. Do you ever feel that way and blame yourself? I myself have always been a perfectionist, and I couldn't easily show others my inability or my shortcomings. But recently, since I started talking about my strict side at home and my imperfections, I've actually been told more often that it has made people feel relieved. What I realized from this is that People aren't attractive because they're perfect; rather, it's their imperfections that make us feel closer to them and want to support them. This deeply resonated with the phrase "the beauty of imperfection" that I heard at a talk about Sen no Rikyu. The moon and the sun aren't beautiful because they're always perfectly visible; their beauty is enhanced precisely because they're sometimes hidden, waning, or obscured by clouds. Perhaps it's the same with people. We all have our shortcomings. We have weaknesses. We're still incomplete. Even so, people are moved by those who are earnestly pursuing their passions and striving to live their own lives. It's okay not to be perfect. It's okay to be imperfect. In fact, when you can be yourself, you'll feel more at ease, and those around you will too. I hope this reaches those who are exhausted by perfectionism, those who blame themselves for their shortcomings, and those who lack self-confidence. If you'd like, please share in the comments what you've recently realized is "it's okay not to be perfect." If you enjoyed the video, please like, subscribe, comment, and share. 0:00 Opening 0:11 Today's theme: "Don't think of yourself as a failure for not being able to do things" 1:01 The stress I felt as a perfectionist 1:54 How I learned to be my "demon grandmother" self at home 3:42 Imperfection is what makes you attractive 4:33 The "beauty of imperfection" I felt at a talk by Sen no Rikyu 5:03 Learning about the beauty of the unseen from the moon and the sun 7:27 It's precisely because they're not perfect that you want to support them 9:08 Picasso's "Blue Period" and the charm of incompleteness 10:30 The special feeling of knowing someone before they became famous 12:50 It's okay to be imperfect. That's why people find peace of mind. 13:06 Ending Welcome to the channel where you learn "How to live a life where you fulfill your dreams as your true self" 🌈 On this channel, Kaori Ikeda (Kaho), a mother of four and practitioner of subconscious mind techniques, delivers daily insights on the themes of [Mom Entrepreneurship x Self-Esteem x Law of Attraction] She provides daily content on "how to change your life from everyday life." She clearly explains "how to use your consciousness to change reality," including subconscious mind, vibrations, behavioral psychology, how to cultivate a positive mindset, and the law of attraction. Even busy people can gain insights in 5-15 minutes, delivering content from three perspectives: science, spirituality, and personal experience. ────🌸 Related Links ──── ▼ Free Online Salon "KANAU" https://school33.my.canva.site/kanau ▼ New Online Salon "Circulation Salon" - Reservations Now Open https://school33.my.canva.site/in ▼ Detailed Explanation Video Here    • 【参加受付中】オンラインサロン「KANAU」「循環サロン」のご案内   ────🌈 Popular Series ──── 🌿 Kaho's Learning Series    • かほの学び   🌺 Kaho's Travel Series    • かほ旅   💫 Kaho's Interview Series    • 対談動画   ────🌈 Rainbow Notebook Related ──── ✨ Purchase the Rainbow Notebook for Fulfilling Your Dreams Here: https://magokoro24.official.ec/ 🌸 Rainbow Notebook Usage Video Here:    • 虹ノートの使い方   ────💫 Profile ──── Kaori Ikeda | Mother of 4 × Entrepreneur × Subconscious Mind Practitioner After encountering the subconscious mind in 2018 and practicing the law of attraction, she transformed from having "zero money, time, and connections" to achieving her "ideal reality." Currently, she conducts lectures, the Rainbow Notebook Project, and retreats throughout Japan and the world. We share learning and insights to help everyone "live authentically and fully." 📩 Contact us or request collaborations here: https://lin.ee/qXCsE8t 🎥 Subscribe to our channel here:    / @nizinote   Press the bell icon 🔔 to receive the latest videos. #Perfectionism #Self-esteem #Self-blame #Beauty of Imperfection