Why Women Struggle to Ask for What They Want (And How to Change It)

Have you ever left a restaurant disappointed... stayed quiet in a relationship... or walked away from a conversation wishing you had spoken up? The truth is, people aren't mind readers. In this episode of No More BullShift, Peggy and Marci explore why so many of us struggle to ask for what we want—and how learning to advocate for yourself can transform your relationships, your health, your confidence, and your everyday life. Through funny stories, honest conversations, and practical examples, they unpack the habits that keep us silent and the freedom that comes when we finally use our voice. In this episode, you'll discover: ✨ Why self-advocacy is an act of self-respect—not selfishness ✨ The hidden cost of expecting people to "just know" what you need ✨ How people-pleasing quietly leads to resentment and dissatisfaction ✨ Why speaking up creates stronger relationships, not weaker ones ✨ Simple ways to begin asking for what you truly want If you've ever caught yourself saying, "It's fine," when it really wasn't... this conversation is for you. Journal Prompt ✍️ Where in your life have you been hoping someone would read your mind instead of using your voice? What's one conversation you've been avoiding that could change everything if you simply asked for what you need? 🎙️ New episodes every Monday & Thursday Subscribe to No More BullShift for honest conversations about relationships, confidence, personal growth, boundaries, and navigating midlife with a little more courage—and a lot less BS. 👇 We'd love to hear from you in the comments: What's one thing you're going to start asking for this week? #NoMoreBullShift #SelfAdvocacy #Communication #PeoplePleasing #Boundaries #Confidence #PersonalGrowth #WomenOver40 #Relationships #Midlife #Transformation