Why Did They Pick You? The Trait in ‘Good’ People Narcissists Love to Exploit

Why do narcissists target good, empathetic people in relationships? This week, forensic psychologist Dr. Peter Favaro reveals why being a good person might actually make you MORE vulnerable to narcissists—and how that one irrational belief creates the exact confusion toxic people exploit. ‼️ Wondering if you met a “bad person?” Find out with this free gift from Dr. Kerry! - https://subscribepage.io/Bad_People_Test PODCAST EXTRA EXCLUSIVE SEGMENT Find the exclusive second segment and weekly newsletter https://substack.com/@breakingfreenar... MORE ABOUT THE PODCAST EXTRA INTERVIEW 🔹 Dr. Favaro breaks down the ABC model of cognitive behavior therapy—and shows you exactly how to break free from the "500 chances" trap. 👉 Get immediate access to this extended interview https://substack.com/@breakingfreenar... THE BOOK Bad People Bible by Dr. Peter Favaro: https://amzn.to/46zSxQj MORE ABOUT DR. PETER FAVARO Dr. Peter Favaro is a forensic psychologist with decades of experience in high-conflict custody cases and international child abduction cases. He's authored 21 books, including Bad People Bible, Anger Management, and upcoming titles Foundation and a book on mindfulness. Dr. Favaro’s Teachable site: https://cihr.teachable.com ******************* FEELING STUCK? Take my FREE “Toxic or Troubled?” survey to discover your relationship type and get instant access to a complete, private mini-course—educational overviews, reflective questions, grounding techniques, and new strategies tailored to your situation. ▶ Start here: https://kerrymcavoyphd.com/toxic-or-t... READY TO TAKE THE NEXT STEP? • ReclaimYou App - Break the confusion and start healing with the AI-powered coaching app built on Dr. Kerry’s wisdom and experience: https://studio.com/drkerry • The Complete Recovery Collection - Everything You Need to Leave and Heal from Narcissistic Abuse: https://kerrymcavoyphd.thrivecart.com... • First Steps to Leaving Course - Break free from the mental fog that keeps you stuck: https://kerrymcavoyphd.com/first-step... • Toxic-Free Relationship Club - More than a support group—join a thriving, therapeutic environment where survivors of narcissistic abuse heal & thrive. - https://kerrymcavoyphd.com/club/ STAY CONNECTED & SUPPORTED • Weekly “Breaking Free from Narcissistic Abuse” Substack newsletter – Insights, stories, and tools for your healing journey: https://breakingfreenarcabuse.substac... • Follow Dr. McAvoy: YouTube: ‪@KerryMcAvoyPhD‬ Instagram: ‪@KerryMcAvoyPhD‬ Facebook: ‪@KerryMcAvoyPhD‬ • Email: [email protected] • Website: https://kerrymcavoyphd.com/breaking-f... READ MY STORY “LOVE YOU MORE: The Harrowing Tale of Lies, Sex Addiction, & Double Cross” Available now: https://amzn.to/3NVMBXO ABOUT DR. KERRY McAVOY Kerry Kerr McAvoy, Ph.D., is a psychologist, author, and expert on cultivating healthy relationships, deconstructing narcissism, and understanding complex trauma. A survivor herself, her memoir “Love You More” offers an uncensored glimpse into the dynamics of narcissistic abuse. DISCLAIMER: This channel provides all content, resources, and services for educational and informational purposes only. They are not intended to substitute for professional therapy, counseling, medical treatment, or legal advice. Viewing or engaging with this content does not create a client-therapist relationship. If you are experiencing a crisis or mental health emergency, please call 911 (or your local emergency number) or seek immediate help from a licensed professional. Chapter Titles 00:00 The Most Dangerous Warning Sign in Abusive Relationships 02:45 Why Separation Is the Riskiest Time 04:30 Narcissistic vs Borderline Attachment Dynamics 06:05 Why Conflict Feels Regulating to Toxic Partners 07:40 The Subtle Red Flags You Might Miss 09:00 The Charm That Turns Into Control 10:05 The Exhaustion Trap Narcissists Depend On 11:45 The Idealism That Makes You Vulnerable 13:20 The Tyranny of Should and Irrational Thinking 15:30 How Your Beliefs Keep You Stuck 18:05 Breaking the Habit of Self-Deception 21:00 Coercive Control and Your Interpersonal Bubble 29:15 The 2AM Guilt Spiral and Trauma Bond Loop