She Was Giving 70 and He Gave Nothing Back | Ep 82

She set the standard. She cooked, she paid, she showed up. And he got comfortable. Now she wants 50/50 and somehow he's the victim. This week we're unpacking a Reddit story about a man who had it all and did not notice until she stopped, a viral graduation moment that may have cost a girl her scholarship, and a full round of Asking for a Friend, where the cards go places we did not see coming. We get into what it actually means to do too much for someone, why your friends telling you to give less might say more about them than you, whether sex ed belongs in schools or at home, the real reason mental health days exist, and what happens when you try to keep up with 21-year-olds in your mid-30s. Spoiler: highway. Farting. Twice. Plus 90s R&B opinions we will not be apologizing for. Timestamps: • [00:00] Donell Jones, f***boys, and 90s R&B we still know every word to • [12:00] Reddit: She gave 70, he gave nothing, now he's upset it's 50/50 • [19:00] When your friends tell you you're doing too much • [23:00] Asking for a Friend: sex ed, parents vs. schools • [25:00] The graduation split that may have cost her a scholarship • [31:00] Zero red flags: suspicious or just lucky • [32:00] Mental health days and why powering through is a lie • [36:00] If you get overpaid, do you return it • [39:00] Choosing your baby's sex • [40:00] Stalking your partner's ex and Jocelyn's personal cautionary tale • [44:00] Partying like you're 21 when you're in your 30s • [49:00] Baby name theft • [51:00] Is ghosting ever okay • [55:00] Backstreet Boys vs NSync • [55:30] Marriage order among friends, bachelorette spending, physical affection • [1:05:00] Does your culture talk about sex enough • [1:07:00] Couples therapy Two lives. Two perspectives. One unfiltered conversation. Disclaimer: The views and opinions expressed in this podcast are solely our own, based on our personal experiences and limited knowledge. They are not intended to be taken as fact or gospel. Additionally, they do not reflect the beliefs or opinions of our friends, family, employers, or any affiliated organizations.