Contempt in Marriage? Here’s How to Handle It God’s Way.

If your spouse constantly criticizes you, rolls their eyes, speaks down to you, or makes you feel small, your marriage may be suffering from contempt — one of the most destructive patterns in relationships. In this video, we explore: • What contempt in marriage really looks like • Why contempt is so damaging emotionally • The hidden pain underneath disrespectful behavior • Why criticism and eye-rolling destroy connection • How to respond without escalating conflict • How to stop the destructive cycle in your marriage Many people react to disrespect with more anger, shutdown, or emotional withdrawal. But there is a healthier way to respond that protects your peace while also helping rebuild connection. If you feel emotionally exhausted, criticized, or disconnected in your relationship, this teaching will help you better understand what is happening beneath the surface and how to respond wisely. If you want help rebuilding peace and emotional connection in your marriage, book a free 15-minute Joy Makeover Call here: 👉 https://adesobanjo.com/joy ⏱️ CHAPTERS 00:00 What contempt in marriage looks like 00:37 Why contempt hurts so deeply 01:37 Where contempt comes from 02:25 When strengths become criticism 02:52 Contempt after betrayal or hurt 03:40 The misunderstanding many couples have 04:34 What your spouse may really want 05:31 Why people react with disrespect 06:00 Responding with wisdom instead of escalation 07:24 The two ways people handle contempt 08:06 How to stop the destructive cycle 09:25 Why contempt destroys marriages Subscribe for practical, faith-centered relationship advice that helps couples rebuild peace, emotional safety, and connection. ---- In this insightful video, we explore the nuances of contempt in relationships, a destructive communication style that often implies superiority. Understanding this aspect of human behavior is crucial for anyone seeking to improve their communication skills. Learn how to recognize and address this challenging dynamic to foster healthier relationships. 🙏