[나르시시스트 특징] 밖에서는 천사, 집에서는 폭군인 사람들의 소름 돋는 심리

Is there someone who is endlessly sweet and perfect on the outside, but freezes the air the moment they open the door and step inside? It is not that you are being overly sensitive. You are currently being subjected to very sophisticated psychological manipulation. Why is the family, who should be the closest people in the world, eating away at you? Why can't you leave them, and why do you feel guilty every day while constantly watching their every move? In today's video, we delve into the chilling mechanisms (gaslighting, triangulation, and intermittent reinforcement) through which narcissists dominate others, from the perspectives of neuroscience and psychology. I hope this video serves as a true escape for you, who have been blaming yourself while pouring water into a bottomless pit. [Timeline] 00:00 The reason that person is perfect outside but transforms only when they come home 01:41 The chilling psychology of treating even a child's award certificate as an 'accessory' 03:05 The terror of 'unpredictability' that makes you feel self-conscious every day 04:22 'Triangulation,' a psychological technique that thoroughly sows discord within the family 06:05 'Gaslighting,' which never apologizes and makes you doubt your own memory 07:35 The reason you can't escape: 'Intermittent kindness,' scarier than gambling 09:20 The most accurate way to know if 'that person' is around you 10:55 The reason you must never blame yourself (Final comfort) [Tags] #Narcissist #Gaslighting #Psychology #FamilyConflict #HumanRelationships #Sociopath #BehavioralEconomics #SelfEsteem #IntermittentReinforcement #PsychologicalManipulation