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The Covert Narcissistic Mother – When Love Feels Wrong A depth psychological look at emotional entanglement, guilt, and silent manipulation - Prof. Ashok Riehm "I only want what's best for you" – but why doesn't it feel like love? In this video, I explore the dynamics of the covert narcissistic mother: a mother figure who appears caring, selfless, and helpful on the outside – yet leaves her child with deep feelings of guilt, identity doubts, and emotional dependence. 🔎 You will learn: What distinguishes covert narcissism from overt narcissism How covert blame and emotional control work What roles children take on – from the well-behaved child to the mannequin Why many affected people only understand late in life what has happened to them What steps help to free oneself internally and regain one's self 📌 Based on real case studies, psychodynamic interpretations, and insights from transactional analysis, this video shows ways out of the invisible prison of parental over-shaping. Chapter Overview Introduction – When Motherly Love Feels Wrong What is covert narcissism? – The Silent Face of Self-Centeredness Typical Characteristics of Narcissistic Mothers Hidden Psychodynamic Background – Why Your Mother Needs You, Not Loves You Behavioral Patterns in Everyday Life – Guilt, Control, and Emotional Devaluation Childhood Roles – From Good Child to Mannequin Why Pain Often Only Becomes Conscious Late How You Can Free Yourself Internally – Steps to Healing and Setting Boundaries Case Study: Lara – "I Could Never Be Really Happy" Conclusion – You Are Free to Choose Yourself 💬 If you recognize some of this or have felt "something is wrong with me" for years – then this video can provide some initial clarification. 🔔 Feel free to subscribe to my channel if you would like to learn more about psychological dynamics in families, relationships, and healing processes. Selected Literature: Arntz, A., & Jacob, G. (2012). Schema Therapy in Practice: An Introductory Guide to the Schema Mode Approach. Wiley Blackwell. Banschick, M. (2007). The Intelligent Divorce: Taking Care of Yourself. iUniverse. Bowlby, J. (1988). A Secure Base: Parent-Child Attachment and Healthy Human Development. Basic Books. Bradshaw, J. (1990). Homecoming: Reclaiming and Championing Your Inner Child. Bantam Books. Brown, L.B. (2008). Children of the Self-Absorbed: A Grown-Up's Guide to Getting Over Narcissistic Parents. New Harbinger. Crittenden, P.M. (2006). A Dynamic–Maturational Model of Attachment. Australian and New Zealand Journal of Family Therapy, 27(2), 105-115. Gerhardt, S. (2004). Why Love Matters: How Affection Shapes a Baby’s Brain. Brunner Routledge. Golomb, E. (1992). Trapped in the Mirror: Adult Children of Narcissists in Their Struggle for Self. Morrow. Greenberg, L. S., & Paivio, S. C. (1997). Working with Emotions in Psychotherapy. Guilford Press. Imbesi, L. (2021). The Covert Narcissist: Recognizing the Traits and Healing from Emotional Abuse. Independently published. Kernberg, O.F. (1975). Borderline Conditions and Pathological Narcissism. Jason Aronson. Kohut, H. (1971). The Analysis of the Self: A Systematic Approach to the Psychoanalytic Treatment of Narcissistic Personality Disorders. International Universities Press. Linehan, M.M. (1993). Cognitive-Behavioral Treatment of Borderline Personality Disorder. Guilford Press. Miller, A. (1979). The Drama of the Gifted Child: And the Search for the True Self. Suhrkamp. (English edition: The Drama of the Gifted Child) Stein, J. (2013). Abusive Parents: The Micromanaging Narcissist. Psychology Today (online). Streeck-Fischer, A. (2014). Psychodynamic Psychotherapy of Children and Adolescents. Schattauer. Young, J. E., Klosko, J. S., & Weishaar, M. E. (2003). Schema Therapy: A Practitioner's Guide. Guilford Press.