Why You Keep Blocking the Life You Say You Want

#332: If you’ve been waiting for permission, validation, or a sign to make a change, this is it. In this episode of the “How to Get What You Want” series I’m sitting down with psychic medium, spiritual teacher, and author Aycee Brown for a conversation about the one thing standing between you and the life you want: telling yourself the truth. Because most of the time when you feel stuck it’s a sign of self-rejection, not confusion. Together, we unpack why clarity is the real catalyst for manifestation, how many of us unconsciously abandon our desires to be more palatable, and what it looks like to trust your body, your intuition, and your inner knowing. If luck is created through alignment, then honesty is where it begins. Aycee also shares how spiritual frameworks like astrology, numerology, and human design can deepen your self-understanding, why success can feel more threatening than failure, and how small acts of self-trust build the life you’ve been envisioning. Consider this your reminder: you don’t need to become someone else to have the life you want. You need to embody who you already are. This episode is for you if… You know you want more and you’re done pretending you don’t. You’re ready to be honest about what you want. You’ve outgrown who you used to be. You’re learning that self-trust is the real strategy. You want clarity — not confusion — guiding your next chapter. You’re done waiting for luck to knock on your door and are ready to create it. Episode Links: Follow Aycee on Instagram:   / ayceebrown   Follow Aycee on TikTok:   / ayceebrown   Listen to Aycee’s podcast “Is My Aura on Straight?” https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast... Order Aycee’s new book “Embody Your Magic” out February 17: https://bookshop.org/a/55347/97800633... Chapters: 00:00 You're Not Stuck, You're Unclear 05:37 The Tiny "Yes" That Wrecks Your Life 11:07 Stop Making It Your Master 16:45 Decentering Men 27:07 The Body Knows Best 49:26 Astrology, Human Design and Numerology Sponsors: IM8: if you're ready to feel more like your best self, go to [IM8HEALTH.com/lucky](http://IM8HEALTH.com/lucky) and use code LUCKY. You’ll get a Free Welcome Kit, five free travel sachets, and 10% off your order. Monarch Money: Set yourself up for financial success in 2026 with Monarch. Go to [monarch.com](http://monarch.com) and use code LUCKY for 50% off your first year. Equip: You deserve a life that isn’t ruled by food stress, shame, or constant overthinking. To learn more about Equip and see if it’s right for you, visit [equip.health/lucky](http://equip.health/lucky). Shopify: Sign up for your one dollar per month trial today at [shopify.com/balancedblackgirl](http://shopify.com/balancedblackgirl) Connect with Les: Ready to apply what you hear? Subscribe to the She’s So Lucky Newsletter to get weekly episode guides and journal prompts: https://shessolucky.kit.com/newsletter Subscribe to The Lucky Playbook on Substack: https://lesalfred.substack.com/ [Follow Les on IG @lesalfred](  / lesalfred  ) [Follow She’s So Lucky on IG @shessoluckypod](  / shessoluckypod  ) [Follow Les on TikTok](  / lesalfred  ) Follow [She’s So Lucky on TikTok](  / shessoluckypod  ) Visit our website at [shessoluckypodcast.com](http://shessoluckypodcast.com) About She’s So Lucky: She's So Lucky is a weekly podcast that helps you become the luckiest person you know. Hosted by Les Alfred, the show explores success, ambition, mindset, money, career growth, and the habits that help you build a life that actually works for you. Through thoughtful solo episodes and conversations with founders, creatives, and cultural leaders, She’s So Lucky offers grounded insights, practical reframes, and real strategies you can apply immediately. Music License: MB01LEOMOQYQA4Z