Por que Homens e Mulheres TRAEM por Motivos Tão Diferentes? | Pondé

In this video, Luiz Felipe Pondé and anthropologist Miriam Goldenberg discuss why men and women cheat for different reasons and how modernity has transformed infidelity. Based on research, Miriam shows that many men explain infidelity by talking about "masculine nature," opportunity, or crises, while women usually mention a lack of love, romance, affection, and often revenge. Pondé analyzes the emergence of "monogamous men out of laziness": not out of moral virtue, but because it's too much work to manage a wife and mistress in a world of emotional demands, digital surveillance, risk of exposure, and ever-increasing costs. They also discuss women's entry into the workforce, the professional environment as an eroticized space, and the role of compliance in containing this eros and suppressing infidelity. In the end, the question remains: today, is fidelity more about morality, fear, or simply laziness to cheat? ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------ #philosophy #pondé #motivatorsforsuccess