ТЫ САМ ВИНОВАТ, ЧТО ПРИТЯНУЛ НАРЦИССА В СВОЮ ЖИЗНЬ? ВОТ ПРАВДА

The phrase "you attracted a narcissist" is one of the most destructive myths in modern pop psychology. A person who has experienced psychological abuse, emotional roller coaster rides, and destructive relationships is already in a state of deep crisis. When, at this point, they hear from others or incompetent professionals that they themselves have become a "magnet" for a destructive partner, this causes secondary trauma and generates a colossal, paralyzing sense of guilt.