Why Children of Narcissistic Mothers Lose Their Authentic Self and become shape-shifting Chameleons

Have you ever sat next to a survivor of a narcissistic mother - and realized that they are shape-shifting to you? being who they think you want them to be? pleasing you - even if it means they arent true to themselves? I have been on both sides of this. Been the actress, the shape-shifter, the chameleon. And sat on the other side too - not knowing who the other person is and what they need and want. It happens to a smaller or a larger degree - we become who our narcissistic mother wants us to be. And lose connection to our authentic Self. It's a way to survive. And a way to be in relationship that sabotages that relationship (as an adult wanting a healthy relationship). How can you heal - and step out of survival and closer to your authenticity? Send me an email if you want information about working with me, to [email protected] Welcome! Or opt into my email community through this quiz that can help you become aware of self-invaliation that you as a survivor, may be unaware of: https://asewegerif.mykajabi.com/quiz-... #narcissism #narcissisticmother #motherwound #motherwoundhealing #peoplepleasing #selfabandonment #toxicmother #traumabonding #narcissisticabuserecovery #emotionalneglect #narcissisticabuserecovery

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