I Got Pregnant at 41 (My First IUI Success Story)

Alissa is an entrepreneur, to her unconventional path to motherhood at 41, a "Single Mother by Choice" (SMC). Alissa shares the gritty details of her journey, from the "lunatic" list of potential baby daddies and the "Tinder-like" experience of browsing sperm donor profiles, to the profound emotional shift of realizing she didn't need a partner to build a family. She speaks candidly about navigating the heartbreak of past miscarriages and the anxiety of "dusty, scrambled eggs," only to be met with a shockingly successful first-round IUI and a pregnancy she describes as "easy peasy lemon squeezy." The conversation dives deep into the realities of late-pregnancy logistics, including the intense "shaking" of a C-section recovery and the nuances of breastfeeding after a breast reduction. Alissa’s wit shines through as she discusses the humor of "buying a baby online" to shut down nosy commenters and the unexpected joy of seeing her blonde-haired "little lover boy" for the first time. Whether you are considering the SMC path or navigating fertility in your 40s, Alissa’s story is a masterclass in trusting your intuition, letting go of control, and the radical act of choosing yourself. Get the resources, transcript and more information about this episode: https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com... Shop the Show 🛍️ To browse every product recommended by our host and guests, visit: https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com... (Note: We may earn a commission at no extra cost to you—it helps keep the episodes coming!) Support the Pod ❤️ If you enjoy our content and want to help us stay independent, you can donate to the show here: https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com...