How Spiritual Bypassing Is Ruining Your Marriage | S1E4

In this episode of The Grounded Union Podcast, Brandon and Caitlyn dive into a topic that many couples struggle with but rarely talk about—spiritual bypassing. They break down how faith can sometimes be used as a shield to avoid addressing deeper relationship problems, leading to emotional disconnection and unresolved conflicts. They share personal stories of navigating addiction, faith, and marital struggles, offering both hard-earned lessons and practical steps for couples looking to build a stronger foundation. If you've ever been told to "just pray about it" when facing real relationship challenges, this episode is a must-listen. Our 2026 Grounded Union 2-Day Workshop: 📍 San Diego, California – August 14th & 15th (In-Person & Virtual) https://www.groundedunion.com/workshops Looking for immediate support in your marriage? Grounded Union Couples App: Tap here to claim your spot https://www.groundedunion.com/join Follow us on social at   / brandontalksmarriage   &   / caitlyn_doerksen   Check out our IG account to stay updated   / groundedunion   Listen to The Grounded Union Podcast on Spotify here https://open.spotify.com/show/4lh2C2Y... Timestamps & Key Moments: 00:00:00 – Welcome & Event Announcements – In-person workshops are happening this year! 00:02:00 – Caitlyn’s Story – Caitlyn recounts an Easter Sunday experience that revealed problematic church messaging about purity and temptation. 00:05:50 – What Is Spiritual Bypassing? – A breakdown of how faith can sometimes be used to avoid real emotional work. 00:07:42 – Our Personal Story – How they used religious beliefs to cope with addiction and relationship struggles—and why it didn’t work. 00:14:30 – When Prayer Isn’t Enough – The importance of action alongside faith when facing real marital challenges. 00:21:05 – The Wake-Up Call – A pivotal moment that forced them to confront their issues head-on. 00:30:20 – Finding a Healthy Balance – How to incorporate spirituality into marriage without avoiding the tough conversations. 00:41:10 – Practical Steps for Couples – Actionable advice on how to break free from spiritual bypassing and cultivate a stronger, more authentic relationship. 00:50:15 – Final Thoughts & Takeaways – Wrapping up with key lessons and advice for couples struggling with this issue. #TheGroundedUnionPodcast #BrandonDoerksen #CaitlynDoerksen