【選ぶ権利がある】近くにいる方がいい人と、遠ざける方がいい人【割合と頻度を見てね】

Hello, good evening, it's Kii. This time, I'm going to talk about "keeping people at a distance." Your life is determined by the people you associate with. It's both "who you associate with" and "who you don't associate with." Even the people who do unpleasant things to you may have their own mental state or circumstances, but you don't need to put up with unpleasant things and continue to associate with them. (I think it's better not to cut ties right away, but to ask them or close your heart and distance yourself.) It's something that will happen in life, so see how often it applies to you. People who mistakenly believe that "I'm inferior" or "I shouldn't be able to choose people" will always have the mindset of being the one being chosen, thinking "I don't have the right to choose people." Check it out and use it to understand yourself and people. * 00:00 Opening 02:12 ~Start checking~ 07:44 ~What kind of people should I hang out with~ 09:40 It's normal not to be able to "understand each other" 15:33 My past cases (connections that fill the gap and connections that bring joy are different) 16:30 ~Improvement/overcoming~ 17:43 How to keep distance from people 20:20 It may be quicker to "change the environment" than to "change yourself" 21:48 ~Summary~ 22:23 After-talk: Sometimes it's the fault of others or the environment! 26:18 The difference between complaining and badmouthing 28:43 Don't aim to be a saint ^^ My first goal is to post videos once a week. Please support me by liking and subscribing♪ -------- 🙌Petit sharing to make YouTube a safe and fun place🙌 A Google account is required to like and subscribe YouTube likes are set up so that neither the sender nor the viewer knows who pressed them⚪︎ Don't worry if you're worried about your private life being seen (The same goes for likes added to comments; neither the other person nor I know who gave them) Only I can see the account name when subscribing Account names are publicly displayed in the comments section, so we recommend changing your real name ※Please refrain from commenting with advice for others here※ If you want to send your thoughts but don't want to do so in the comments, please send them to the official LINE! (Only I can read the official LINE. The link is below) -------- Finally, Each person lives in a background and circumstances that only they know. With limited space and time, we can't provide perfect information and consideration for everyone, but we hope that our posts will be a part of your daily life. -- Summary of current activities - 📙 Books "Say goodbye to a heavy heart" https://amazon.co.jp/dp/4048966235 "Start by saying, "I love myself" https://www.amazon.co.jp/dp/4804762876 📺 Past courses http://ikiyasu.com/2023/01/10/pastsch... 📝 Kii no Yado We run a weekly live stream and comment corner with a monthly membership system. Archives are available http://ikiyasu.com/online_salon/ 🌉One-on-one mental counseling and personal support http://ikiyasu.com/2023/12/01/persona... 📱SNS related ・  / kiitanuma   ・  / kiitanuma_tanu   ・Official Linehttps://lin.ee/43vkdy6 I read your venting and messages -- The next video will be updated next Wednesday evening-night☺️ Thank you for your hard work today. -- #psychology #spirit #social interactions #work #love #communication