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Kkangnaengi Talk Story Today's story is *Characters* Me = Frantic Husband = As life goes on Daughter = I hate dad Cousin = Who are you to someone like you? Please enjoy watching^^ [Kkangnaengi Talk Story] My husband is always an hour or two late to appointments. He's always complaining, saying it's normal for people to be late, but then he gets a call from his cousin, who wants to invest in his business. He arrives at the appointment two hours before and waits. Six hours later, someone walks up to him, exhausted from not eating all day. / Cider Story / Radio Drama / Video Toon Do people with no sense of time really have ADHD? Hello, I'm a wife who's been married for four years and is currently pregnant with our second child. It's not a hormonal issue. Ever since we started dating, I've been living with a husband who's been punctual. He's so bad at keeping appointments that if it's even 10 or 30 minutes, he won't even say anything. Now, he gets so angry that he's basically two hours late. When we're getting ready together, I spend less time getting dressed than most women, but my husband has never seen me finish getting ready before my eldest child and I have all the time. If he thinks he'll be late, he'll do his hair roughly, get dressed roughly, put on makeup in the car, or even skip things like holding in his pee or poop. It seems normal to rush, but my husband always does everything he needs to, and he never rushes. This is the most stressful part. For example, if my husband is home alone on the weekend and has a schedule ahead of him, I'll tell him to come home by 5:00, so I can prepare for his next schedule (like visiting his in-laws or having a dinner appointment). I'll wait, but if he doesn't show up by 5:30, I'll call and he'll say he's leaving now. He lives a two-hour drive away. For example, he says he'll meet A at 2:00, B at 4:00, and come home by 6:00. Then, I'm waiting for him to have dinner with me, and he says he's meeting B at 5:00. Conversely, if I ask what time he'll be home, he'll only give me a casual answer like, "Around 8:00?" I'm not telling him not to be late, but is it that difficult and hard to fix just to ask him to tell me he's late? This isn't something that happens once a month. It happens every day in a row, and I don't really care. Of course, whenever something like this happens, I try to be nice, ask him for help, and even try to get Tyler to do something. After having my first child, I didn't want to fight or raise my voice in front of the child. I've never done that before. So, I mostly just rant on KakaoTalk, and just keep my frustrations to myself. Even now, I'm so angry I can't sleep and leave messages on the forums. I'm really good at apologizing, but I don't even yell for an apology. I'm seriously starting to feel like I'm going crazy. I need some advice on what to do in this situation. I heard somewhere that not keeping appointments can be considered a sign of adult ADHD, so I think I really need to go to the hospital for a consultation. My husband works in sales, which requires making appointments and meeting people face-to-face. With our second child coming soon, I wonder if I'll be able to live a good life. Whether it's comfort, empathy, or advice, please give me some wisdom on how to live wisely going forward. ㅠㅠ