Quando la gentilezza fa danni

How many times have you tasted a dish that wasn't quite right and, when asked by the waiter, replied with a smile: "Everything was great"? We're deeply convinced that not telling uncomfortable truths is an act of kindness. It's an elegant way to respect others and avoid friction. But what if we're actually just protecting ourselves from discomfort? Starting with an overly salty risotto, in this video we dismantle one of the most common (and invisible) short circuits in our relationships. Because sometimes, hiding behind the word "delicacy" does much more harm than sincere feedback. #personalgrowth #effectivecommunication #psychology #relationships #feedback _________________________________________ ⛵️ JustXperience, a trip aboard my sailboat with me and other crazy people from the community: https://www.justxperience.com 🌳 JUSTLOST, the social experiment with 40 people surrounded by nature and without technology: https://justlost.it/ 💬 Join the Just Tribe, our community on Circle. A free and valuable alternative to traditional social networks, where you can also find exclusive content: https://mickodelli.com/circle-justtri... 📧 Subscribe to the free newsletter where we explore topics and keep you updated on everything: https://www.mickodelli.com/newsletter 📖 Sfacciati, my book in all bookstores and online: https://www.amazon.it/dp/8820080478/r... 🧠 Four unique courses to help you overcome your barriers, focus on what matters, train your mind, and create lasting memories: https://www.mickodelli.com/percorsi 📲 INSTAGRAM:   / mickodelli   📲 LINKEDIN:   / mickodelli   📲 X: https://x.com/mickodelli 📲 SUBSTACK: https://substack.com/@mickodelli ✉️ CONTACT ME FOR COLLABORATIONS: [email protected] Chapters: 00:00 Intro 00:17 Risotto 01:52 What if it were me? 2:21 Theory of Mind 3:19 Mum Effect 4:09 We Want to Protect Ourselves 4:59 Gentle Silence 5:47 In Relationships 6:23 The Short Circuit 7:34 How We Function 8:53 Kindness as Anesthesia 10:50 In Conclusion 12:01 Credits Credits: Mick Odelli Directed and Edited by Manuel Coletto