Mixed Signals: Are They ACTUALLY Into Me or Just CONFUSED? | Heart of Dating

Today we’re diving into all things mixed signals, dissecting the concept of "gophering" in relationships, and how to set boundaries for clarity! ------------ TIMESTAMPS: 00:00 HODC event 2025 announced for February. 04:21 Analyzing guy's intentions through various interactions. 07:34 Overanalyze mixed signals in group chats. 10:09 Non-committal people clarify relationship intentions. 15:41 Long-term friendly crushes at church and gym. 19:05 Avoid prolonged friendationships; pursue clarity early. 21:24 Scared of commitment in online dating. 22:54 Ghosting issues are about them, not you. 28:07 Avoids labels; prefers open-ended relationships. 29:45 Communicate needs for clear relationship boundaries. 34:32 Discussing Matthew Hussey's MPI (Minimal Possible Investment). 35:21 Gophering: Inconsistent communication causes relationship confusion. 41:06 Genuine intentions require thoughtful, sincere communication. 44:44 Show compassion, don't bad talk after breakups. 45:20 Avoid badmouthing exes publicly; it hinders growth. Love Heart of Dating Podcast? Want to support us AND be a part of the fam? Join us on Patreon!   / heartofdating   Crushing on a cutie? Download this FREE Resource on how to show interest: https://www.heartofdating.com/resourc... Want to further your dating knowledge? Check out our ultimate dating library! https://www.heartofdating.com/resourc... Kait wrote a book! Snag Thank You For Rejecting Me on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3E59cLQ Want to meet some epic Christian Singles? Join our huge HOD Family on FB!   / heartofdatingpodcast   Come hang with us on the gram:   / heartofdating     / kaitness   https://www.instagram.com/jjtomlin/?h... . . . . . We love hearing from you! Drop a comment to tell us what spoke to you in this episode. If you have any topics or questions you'd like us to dive into in future episodes, drop them in the comments as well, and we'll work hard to tackle them!

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