How to Spot an Abusive Relationship (from inside and out)

We've all met people who our friends love, who we see some red flags in, but that doesn't always mean it's abusive - here is your comprehensive guide on how to know what's abusive, and what's not (and also what to do if it is). HELPLINES: AUSTRALIA: 1800RESPECT Available 24 hours a day, 7 days a week https://www.1800respect.org.au/help-a... UK: 0808 2000 247 Available 24 hours a day, 7 days a week https://www.nationaldahelpline.org.uk/ USA: 800-799-7233 Available 24 hours a day, 7 days a week https://www.thehotline.org/plan-for-s... subscribe to my patreon for early access and some extra bonus content!   / talisadler   or if you're not interested in bonus content, I have a ko-fi too! https://ko-fi.com/talistheinvisibledi... my other socials: https://at.tumblr.com/talistheintrovert   / introverttalis     / theinvisibledisaster     / talistheintrovert   Resource link: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1G... chapters: 0:00 - 7:47 intro 7:47 - 10:01 lovebombing 10:01 - 11:58 controlling behaviour 11:58 - 14:12 Jealousy and Isolation 14:12 - 17:55 Dr Jekyl and Mr Hyde 17:55 - 19:08 Unrealistic Expectations 19:08 - 22:46 Hypersensitivity and Verbal Abuse 22:46 - 25:14 Financial Abuse 25:14 - 30:59 Gaslighting 30:59 - 35:27 Other (more obvious) Signs 35:27 - 43:09 How do YOU feel vs how do THEY feel 43:09 - 43:51 NTERMISSION 43:51 - 47:13 From the Outside 47:13 - 48:20 they're pulling away 48:20 - 49:32 the other person is OVERLY INVOLVED 49:32 - 51:10 they are berated or degraded in public 51:10 - 52:29 their appearance changes drastically 52:29 - 53:47 their personality changes 53:47 - 57:36 what YOU can do to help 57:36 - 1:05:42 conclusions 1:05:42 - 1:10:25 final thoughts 1:10:25 - 1:13:00 patreon and sign off