Idealizacja i dewaluacja. Wredne siostry miłości feat Marta Niedźwiecka

I watched my enamored friend tell me about the deity she'd recently met. A living flame of passion burned in her eyes, and a rainbow spread around her, with every word scattered with colorful confetti. Lucky girl, I thought. Now let her discover that this deity, mistakenly sent to Earth, has sweaty armpits, and the little bastard doesn't put his socks in the laundry basket. And then it hit me! Idealization and devaluation! And everything in between. What are these rose-colored glasses, and does every idealization really have to end in a layer of sludge? But is there anything in this idealization that can keep us grounded, something that doesn't fly off into the sky and then crash back down to earth? And above all, can love and intimacy exist between idealization and devaluation? And who could I talk to about this? The answer in my head was obvious. In terms of love, my one and only love is @niedzwiecka_marta. So I pitched the idea. And there, the fervor of podcasting passion erupted in front of the microphones, so buckle up. It's going to be a wild ride. Lovely hugs, Gutral (talking) P.S. For the opportunity to produce, edit, and distribute this episode, I bow low to the Patrons and Matrons :* If you are a fan of Gutral gadania and have the opportunity to support the production and distribution of this podcast, I invite you to join the group of Patrons and Matrons. https://patronite.pl/gutral For all donations, kindly pay, Freud ;) Editing: Eugeniusz Karlov