"自信がついたらやる"が一生来ない理由

Do you ever find yourself thinking, "I'll do it when I feel more confident," only to end up doing nothing and letting time pass? This video examines the modern "justice" that many people believe without question: "You should increase your self-esteem." This is done from the perspectives of psychology and history. In fact, psychological research reveals that the order of "confidence" and "action (success)" is the opposite of what is commonly believed. We will explore how the pressure to "increase self-esteem" drags us into an endless "self-scoring game," causing us suffering. We will also examine the roots of this "justice" through the events that unfolded when California attempted to institutionalize self-esteem using taxpayer money. Your procrastination is not due to a lack of willpower. We will offer tips on how to fire the "arbiter" that judges you every day and acquire a "new compass" to rely on instead of confidence. ■What you will learn in this video 0:00 When will that "when I feel more confident" arrive? 0:34 The Birth of Justice – The Perspective of "Institutionalization" (The California Experiment) 04:11 Mistaking Correlation for Causation – The Perspective of "The Direction of the Arrow" 08:25 The Trap of "Pursuing" Self-Worth – The Perspective of a "Scoring Game" 11:36 Threatened Ego – The Perspective of "Fragile Confidence" 15:05 Whose Justice Was It? – The Perspective of "Cultural Scale" 22:39 Stepping Down and Seeing Through – The Perspective of "Reversibility" (The Final Reversal) ■Reference Materials https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/10.1... https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/10.1... https://carlsonschool.umn.edu/sites/c... https://doi.org/10.1037/0022-3514.75.... https://w ebsites.umich.edu/~bbushman/bb98.pdf https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/15828... https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/15122... https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/19076... https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/17484... https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/arti... https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/10560 328/ https://doi.org/10.1111/j.1467-839X.2... https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/10.1... https://doi.org/10.1111/j.1467-839X.2... https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/22730... https://www8.cao.go.jp/youth/kenkyu/i... https://warp.da.ndl.go.jp/info: ndljp/pid/13024511/www8.cao.go.jp/youth/kenkyu/ishiki/h30/pdf-index.html https://www.cfa.go.jp/assets/contents... https://eric.ed.gov/?id=ED321170 #Self-esteem #Lack of confidence #Procrastination #Psychology #Action