婚介想跟青年說……又不好意思當面說的事：我們是來幫你的！放下照片，看見神所預備有趣、契合的靈魂 / ft. 簡瑞斌傳道【 只見耶穌 青年團契 】婚姻停看聽｜Ep42

"Why have I gone through so many matchmaking sessions without any results?" "When I see a matchmaker approaching, I just want to turn and run?" "Being introduced to someone feels so inferior?" Matchmaking agencies—servants of God, chosen by God to give us the opportunity to serve and learn alongside young people, to help you find the most "suitable" partner. However, young people may reject matchmaking agencies due to a lack of understanding, frustration, and anxieties. This episode invites Wenjuan, Renkai, and Shuzhe—three veteran matchmakers—and Evangelist Abin to boldly reveal the matchmaking secrets that are "too embarrassing to discuss face-to-face," the grace and protection amidst turbulent times, the joys and sorrows of matchmaking, and how to tell if a young person is "ready for marriage?" In fact, your "marriage" itself is an important sacred work; the work of matchmaking agencies is also "creating leaders" for the church! ... Highlights of this episode: ※The wisdom of refusing to show photos: Why is "prayer first, then meeting" more effective in finding the right person than Instagram filters? Say Goodbye to Being Silent and Dull: Learn to manage yourself appropriately and be proactive, allowing your spiritual strengths to be seen. Break the 20% Threshold Myth: Don't let "perfect conditions" become stumbling blocks to happiness. A Lesson in Building Courage: How to get back on your feet after rejection? First, encounter a more mature version of yourself in your faith. "An interesting soul and the practice of spirituality" are the ultimate equipment for marriage! Whether you are a frustrated young person or an anxious parent, we hope this episode can help you regain the courage and confidence to entrust your life to others. --------------------------------------------------------------------- 【Table of Contents】 00:00 Exciting Preview 01:04 Introducing Guests: A Preacher and Three Senior Marriage Matchmakers 03:45 Any More "Turbulent" Events? 04:34 What Shuzhe Wants to Say… 04:50 Are You Really Taking Marriage Seriously? 05:50 Why Not Send Photos First? 08:01 Wenjuan's Thoughts 08:47 Matchmaking services are here to help us~ 09:00 Renkai's Thoughts 09:32 Young people's "minor mistakes" 09:51 Commitment to secrecy and espionage! 10:22 Matchmaking begins with prayer 10:18 You can politely decline if you don't want to be cared for right now 12:34 Pastor Abin: Society vs. Faith Perspectives 16:30 What matchmaking services also want to say to parents 18:30 Rejecting "external" views on marriage 20:36 Some people think...being introduced to someone is a bad thing?! 21:28 Your marriage is an important "holy work"! 21:58 The job of matchmaking services is...creating a responsible person?! 23:03 The concept of "looking more? Comparing more?" 23:58 Have you encountered the following sharp problems during the matchmaking process? 24:02 Average-looking guy demanding a beautiful woman? Still looking for a better option while still in the game? 24:58 Shu-che's response 26:41 Ren-kai and Wen-juan's response 26:55 Redefining "matching social status": ±20% 29:09 Data doesn't reveal warmth or conversation 31:13 The right mindset for marriage 31:23 On the psychology of comparison 31:34 The "happy waterwheel effect" 32:54 Preparing one's spiritual qualities is more important 34:23 The practice on the path of marriage 35:40 Please be "strong and courageous"! 36:51 Will a fuller figure affect introductions? 37:03 What if his inner qualities are more attractive to me? 37:17 An Interesting Soul & Puffy Costume 37:25 Advice on Appearance and Dressing 38:43 Encouragement from the Preacher [Scripture] 05:00 Hebrews 13:4 30:50 Philippians 2:3 39:39 Proverbs 16:9 40:04 Psalm 37:5 ----------------------------------------------------------------------- 【Related Programs】    • (上集) 再重來一次！擇偶條件會改變嗎？婚後實務經驗如何改變對擇偶條件的想法？ ft...      • (下集) 他們相親之前就知道是對方了？！聖經怎麼看擇偶條件這件事 /ft.林頌懷 劉...      • 第一次通話就求婚！她大齡女青 他相親屢遭拒 神攜他們走上神蹟紅毯 ｜女大男小是問題嗎...   【Related Articles】 https://joy.org.tw/holyspirit_detail_... 【Related Platforms】 Only Jesus Official Website: https://jesus.org.tw/index.php Podcast: https://reurl.cc/mRnl5l Joy Audiovisual Center:   / tjc.joy     / tjc.joyaudiovisualcenter   Joy Online Family: https://joy.org.tw/index.php ----------------------------------------------------------------------- Produced by the True Jesus Church Taiwan General Headquarters | Joy Audiovisual Center Production | Copyright Reserved. Please Respect. Welcome to watch | Free donation | Spreading the Gospel Transfer Account: 【00201261】 Account Name: 【True Jesus Church Taiwan General Headquarters Foundation】 Please specify 【Audiovisual Communication Account】 in the contact information. ▶️Intellectual Property and Copyright Statement All visual images, voice-over, narration, scripts, and original audio in this video/post are protected by the Copyright Act, and...