If He Acts Like This About Sex, It's Abuse | Best Of Relationships Uncensored | S3E16

"Physical touch is his love language." "If you loved him, you'd just do it." "Maybe if you had more sex with him, he wouldn't cheat." These phrases are everywhere, and they're designed to make you doubt yourself. Lisa Sonni brings together the most important moments from her conversations with Dr. Danielle Kramer, Dr. Kate Balestrieri, and Nat LaJune to name what's really happening when sex inside a relationship starts to feel like pressure, performance, or punishment. Sexual entitlement isn't a love language, it's coercion. When someone believes they're owed access to your body, that is abuse. This episode is for every woman who has ever said yes when she meant no, just to keep the peace. Your reactions are not the problem. The entitlement is. Watch the full episodes linked below. Subscribe for more videos that expose abuse tactics and answer the questions you've always wondered about toxic and abusive relationships. Connect with Resources Get more education, 24/7 healing and resources inside my online community She Rises Collective: https://strongerthanbefore.ca/membership Join our 12-Week Group Coaching Programs with me and Dr. Peter Salerno https://strongerthanbefore.ca/group-c... Take the free 2-minute Trauma Bond Quiz https://kcdplmm983r.typeform.com/trau... Are You Trauma Bonded? Take this free 2 minute quiz with instant results: https://kcdplmm983r.typeform.com/trau... Where Am I In My Healing? Take this free 2 minute quiz with instant results: https://kcdplmm983r.typeform.com/to/x... Work With Me Book a 1:1 Recovery Strategy Session or a Coaching Package https://strongerthanbefore.ca/book-a-... Trauma Bond Recovery Course https://strongerthanbefore.ca/trauma-... Website https://strongerthanbefore.ca About Lisa Sonni Abusive relationship educator and trauma bond recovery expert. Certified Trauma Recovery Coach, creator of the Break & Rebuild Method, and author of four abuse-recovery books. Host of Relationships Uncensored Podcast. #NarcissisticAbuse #TraumaRecovery #NarcissisticAbuseRecovery #TraumaBonding #EmotionalAbuse #NarcissisticPersonalityDisorder #HealingFromTrauma #ToxicRelationships ⚠️ DISCLAIMER: This content is for educational and informational purposes only. It is not therapy or medical advice. Always seek professional help for your specific situation. 00:00 – The Lie Women Are Told About Sex 02:13 – What Sexual Entitlement Actually Means 04:20 – “Men Need Sex” (And Why That’s Wrong) 06:10 – Coercion Disguised as “Needs” 08:05 – Why Entitlement Kills Desire 10:03 – Why Sex Might Need to Stop Completely 12:56 – How Society Teaches Coercion 15:14 – Persuasion vs. Coercion 17:25 – Why “She Never Wants It” Happens 18:48 – The “Withholding Sex” Myth 20:06 – How Men Destroy Their Own Sex Lives 21:20 – The Dark Truth About “Pleasuring” Women 22:43 – Discovering Sexual Coercion (Viral Moment) 24:01 – Realizing It Was Abuse 25:10 – When “Love Languages” Become Manipulation 27:00 – Why This Is So Hard to Recognize 30:00 – The Cultural System Behind It 34:30 – What Healthy Desire Actually Looks Like 37:00 – Final Takeaways & What Needs to Change