Как понять мужчину? Евгений Демьянов про ожидания и реальность

This is episode 2 with Evgeniy Demyanov. VK https://vk.ru/id1765 Telegram @DemyanovEugene VK Blog https://vk.ru/app7070938_-93804143 _______________ In this episode, we dive deep into the psychology of men's perspectives on relationships. Why do men think less about relationships than women? How can you tell right from the start whether your partner is ready for a long-term commitment or just interested in a short-term fling? Together with psychologist and coach Evgeniy Demyanov, we explored: ✅The difference in men's and women's perceptions of intimacy. ✅5 hidden signs of a man who knows how to build long-term relationships. ✅How to ask the right questions on first dates to avoid turning them into an interrogation. ✅Why men are afraid of women's tears and how to teach them to respond appropriately to your emotions. ✅What is "victimhood" in relationships and how it destroys intimacy? This episode will help you stop assuming things for a man and teach you to see the real facts and actions. Watch until the end, because at the end we announced a unique interactive feature for the next episode! 00:00 Introduction: Why women often assume things for men. 00:25 What do men really think about relationships? A comparison with women's perceptions. 01:18 How often do men think about relationships when they are not problematic. 02:25 Stereotypes about male and female roles: "you have to be different" versus "a man should." 03:12 The influence of childhood experiences and relationships with your mother on understanding women. 04:33 How to recognize the qualities of a partner at the very beginning. The trap of the "perfect romance." 07:05 Why gifts and attention do not guarantee softness and tenderness in the future. 8:35 Can you understand someone just by asking questions on first dates? 10:52 Why it's important to ask for examples when discussing values ​​and compromises. 12:26 Response to clarifying questions as an important indicator. 14:26 The main secret: can a person play the long game? Analysis of career and hobbies. 17:42 Adjustment and response to requests: how he behaves when you don't like something. 22:00 Situation: he does what's best, but then grumbles. Why does this happen? 24:45 True sacrifice versus "victim syndrome" in relationships. 28:00 The difference in emotionality: logic versus feelings. 30:00 Male upbringing and the taboo on emotions: why it's difficult for them to empathize. 37:12 A woman's joy as a source of happiness for a man. 38:46 Why women's tears scare men and how they try to "turn down the volume." 40:12 How to teach a man to respond appropriately to your emotions. 49:05 Practical advice: how to communicate your needs in a language a man understands. 51:58 Preview of the next episode: an interactive session with "hysteria" and answers to questions from the internet.