the second chivalric rule

what i forgot to be explicit about is how i failed: while trying to not speak against others in their absence, i am learning that the way i speak is riddled with complaning, degrading language and rather harsh statements born from passing emotional states. i endeavor to clean this up and habituate speech flowing from a kinder and more generous regard of fellow creatures. maybe i will do another video about what i learned from the first rule. if anyone is interested in my speaking on this, do tell me!