Sooo, my family found out about my YouTube channel... 😳 Proactive Day(s) in the Life Vlog

Hello! This video is a blissful, work-full day (and a half!) in the life vlog! Half way through I realize that the vlog could be perceived as boring, but hey! At least my day wasn't stressful or negative! However, I decided that I wanted to share this significant event that I could be stressed about with you, because... why not! I think it's an important and interesting change in circumstances, and it indirectly involves you, so how about I open up about my thoughts and feelings about it in this video. Especially in the first year of this channel's existence, I spent a lot of time and energy deeply considering how I'd feel and how I need to optimize my comfort in sharing the content that I do on this channel, and that consideration inspired personal growth in me that extends far beyond my YouTube content. It influenced my connection to my family members, in particular, by prompting me to realize that I don't want to speak about them, to them, or even think of them in a shame based way. I have compassion for them infinitely - I just want to learn and share how to interact with them, or keep distance from them, and live our own personal lives in a way that allows for us to recognize and meet our needs, and live our happiest and healthiest lives possible. So, that's what I try to do here on the 'Tube. I mean no harm! I mean to help people. Watch the video to hear more of my thoughts regarding all of this, and please feel free to comment below what your thoughts are regarding all of this! Please subscribe to my channel and like this video to support my channel! Every act of support helps small YouTube channels, like mine, SO much, with the algorithm and the momentum of our work here! I appreciate it immensely, thank you! Here are timestamps for you to skip ahead to or return to as you wish: 0:00 Introduction: Take 1 1:46 About Allen 3:38 About my Day 7:54 A Little Later 10:15 PSA & Work Intermission 13:48 Day Break & Listen to Your Body Chat 17:18 Chats & Cats While Making Dirt 22:25 Propogation Time 27:10 The Beginning of the Story... 30:45 A Romantic Interlude 31:39 The Moment I Knew I Loved Him (lol) 32:37 Introduction: Take 2 33:37 Weekend Garden Update 36:30 Weekend Life Update...!! 37:56 The Whole Story: Past, Present, & Future If you're interested in working with me 1:1 for Trauma Recovery Coaching, please email me here: [email protected] or write me here: www.proactiveresilience.com Until next time ~ I wish you ALLL the best!! You deserve it. Take care of yourself, and do something today that your future self will thank you for later! Happy Healing (: Allisun Pssst... comment a fairy emoji below if you're reading this, and watched the part of the video where I recognize you, proactive fairy!!! I see you! You rock. Meow. (:

I'm back....!! LIFE UPDATE: Where I've been & where I'll be moving forward. (:
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I'm back....!! LIFE UPDATE: Where I've been & where I'll be moving forward. (:

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