Foundations & Core Concepts of Calm Leadership Parenting

Learn more at https://bratbusters.com Welcome to part one of the seven part Calm Leadership Parenting Series. In this episode, Lisa discusses what she considers to be the foundations and core concepts of calm leadership, the pool story, the difference between the authority, pleaser, and calm leader parenting styles, why some parents feel like they want to raise their kids differently from how they were raised, why the goal of calm leadership isn’t blind obedience, and what qualities she sees in parents who are calm leaders. Lastly, Lisa addresses five listener questions, covering whether to reward a 7-year-old for good behaviour at piano lessons, specific examples for the BratBusters Behaviour Board for a 9-year-old, how to approach behaviours that aren't on the board, dealing with a 34-month-old's aggressive behaviour at daycare, and the feeling of constantly handing out consequences to your kids. Timestamps: 00:00 Introduction to Foundations of Calm Leadership 02:14 What is Calm Leadership Parenting? 03:36 Example of Calm Leadership Parenting: The Pool Story 08:11 Explanation of Authority Parenting Style 08:59 Explanation of Pleaser Parenting Style 09:54 Comparing the Authority and Pleaser Parenting Styles to Calm Leadership 10:44 Parents Who Didn’t Like How They Were Raised 14:40 Why the Goal of Calm Leadership isn’t Blind Obedience From Kids 15:23 Lisa’s Top Three Leadership Qualities 20:13 Episodes in the Calm Leadership Series Will Be Posted Daily 20:47 Listener Question 1: Rewarding 7-Year-Old For Good Behaviour at Piano Lessons? 23:56 Listener Question 2: Examples For the BratBusters Behaviour Board For 9-Year-Old? 26:49 Listener Question 3: How to Approach Behaviours That Aren’t on the BratBusters Behaviour Board? 29:09 Listener Question 4: 34-Month-Old Aggressive Behaviour at Daycare? 30:39 Listener Question 5: Feeling Like You’re Constantly Handing Out Consequences to Your Kids? 32:28 Why Lisa Started BratBusters Parenting Thank you for joining us! If you’re looking to learn more about the BratBusters Behaviour Board, parenting courses, and more, visit https://bratbusters.com today. Have a parenting question you’d like to submit for a chance to be featured in an upcoming podcast? You can submit yours here https://bratbusters.com/podcast-quest... Let’s Connect: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bratbusters... TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@bratbusterspa... YouTube:    / @bratbustersparenting   Facebook:   / bratbustersparenting   Disclaimer: The information provided in this podcast is for general informational purposes only and is not intended as a substitute for professional advice. Lisa Bunnage is a Parenting Coach, mom and grandmother. Lisa is not a licensed psychologist or counsellor. Her services do not replace the care of psychologists or other healthcare professionals. For a full disclaimer, please visit bratbusters.com/disclaimer