Why I Regret Raising My Kids Mormon (HONEST mother/daughter discussion)

Take back your personal data with Incogni! Use code SHELISE at https://incogni.com/shelise and get 60% off an annual plan. A Happy Mother’s Day to everyone tuning in! This is an honest conversation between a mother and daughter about the crippling expectations placed on mothers in high control groups. Lisa explains her experience growing up in Mormonism which shaped her view of her options after high school and directly led her to becoming a young mother leaving her dreams behind. Shelise chimes in about what she remembers the messaging being as a young girl in Mormonism and explains the pros and cons of raising a child outside of a high demand religion. Connect with Lisa! Business IG: @spiritofottertail https://www.instagram.com/spiritofott... We want to meet you in real life! Come adventure with us on our 2nd C2C VACATION! Click here to go to the official booking page: https://trovatrip.com/trip/north-amer... Subscribe to our C2C "CLIPS" Channel!    / @cultstoconsciousnessclips   Support C2C - Any donations are welcome and appreciated to support the making of this podcast. Find our FULL (uncensored) merch store here! https://cults-to-consciousness-shop.f... Patreon   / cultstoconsciousness   Venmo @sheliseann Find us on Social media! Instagram @cultstoconsciousness   / cultstoconsciousness   Host Instagram @sheliseann   / sheliseann   Co Producer / Host @jonathan.rosales_   / jonathan.rosales_   TikTok @cults.to.consciousness   / cults.to.consciousness   Twitter @cultstocon   / cultstocon   Chapter Marks 000:00:00 Intro 00:03:47 Shelise's Special Announcement... 00:04:25 Lisa's early years attending Young Womens 00:05:28 The only option for a woman was to be a wife and mother 00:12:14 What the crossroads of career vs marriage was like for Lisa 00:16:44 Are Utah Mormons different than Mormons from other states? 00:21:25 The pitfalls of the church pressuring young people to get married 00:28:37 Parenting is already hard enough-- what the extra layer of guilt & shame was like for Lisa 00:31:35 The discusses her own break downs 00:34:51 The chaos of Lisa getting the chiIdren ready for church, and to show up presenting perfect 00:39:50 The pressures of a Mormon mom when it comes to their children's actions 00:44:06 Lisa's thoughts on sending her kids on a Mormon Mission 00:47:01 Things that made being a parent difficult while Mormon 00:52:17 Lisa's regrets as a Mormon mom 00:54:25 Shelise opens up about her beliefs and raising chiIdren in a religious state 01:04:14 Lisa's thoughts on the after life 01:05:47 What is the cost of Mormon salvation? 01:12:12 How Lisa feels about the less strict parenting rules the church has now 01:18:20 Final thoughts 01:26:35 Linda, listen 01:27:05 Rhea makes an appearance! *Disclaimer: Thanks for joining us at Cults to Consciousness. This storytelling podcast is meant to be for entertainment purposes only and does not substitute for medical advice. We may discuss triggering topics and we ask that you make your personal mental health a priority. Lastly, the opinions of our guests do not necessarily reflect the opinions of the host.*