Be More Selfish!

Sometimes being “selfish” isn’t selfish at all… sometimes it’s survival. In this video I open up about some of the hardest moments I’ve faced over the last few years — from blurred boundaries between friendship and work, to difficult family relationships, and the impact negativity can have on your mental health and future. I talk honestly about: Why managing friends can become complicated The importance of setting boundaries early The breakdown in the relationship with my eldest daughter How stress and pressure led me to seek counselling Why removing negative energy from your life can sometimes be necessary And how finally choosing myself helped create Edge Sportswear and a different future For years I worried more about keeping everyone else happy than protecting my own peace. Eventually I realised that constantly sacrificing yourself for others can slowly destroy your confidence, your happiness, and your direction in life. This isn’t about bitterness or blame. It’s about growth, lessons learned, and understanding that sometimes you have to choose yourself before you lose yourself. If this resonates with you, drop a comment — I’d genuinely like to hear your experiences too.