Are They Avoidant or An Asshole? with Ken Reid

Counselor Ken Reid joins us for an insightful discussion on attachment styles, particularly focusing on avoidant attachment. Ken delves into the complexities of avoidant and fearful-avoidant attachment styles, explaining their origins and how they manifest in adult relationships. He shares his personal journey and professional expertise, highlighting the importance of self-awareness and the challenges of healing from developmental trauma. The episode offers practical advice for those struggling with attachment issues, emphasizing the value of therapy and the need for a supportive network. Work with Ken's team at kenreidcounselling.com.au 01:57 Personal Journey into Counseling 04:10 Experiences with Avoidant Partners 09:55 Attachment Styles Overview 19:08 Challenges in Relationships with Avoidant Partners 22:11 Communicating with Avoidant Partners 25:06 Doing the Inner Work 30:10 Understanding Avoidant Attachment 31:06 The Importance of an Accountability Team 33:01 Challenges in Therapy for Avoidant Attachments 34:22 Finding Problems with Partners 39:01 Attachment Styles and Adult Relationships 47:47 Self-Sabotage and Healing Attachment Wounds Want to hear more of our episodes with therapists? This playlist has them all!