Ссоры в отношениях: как перестать ругаться и не дойти до развода

A podcast about the intricacies of relationships. Important, complex, and interesting moments in romantic relationships. The perspective, experience, and insight of both sides—the man and the woman. "SUBTLETIES" is a project that will help you stay focused in your relationships and create healthy, caring love. Subscribe to our Telegram channel: https://t.me/tonkostee Follow us on Instagram:   / tonkostee   Authors and hosts: Sasha Kleo — social psychologist; creative director (Ex Avito, Sber, Yandex); Danya Trabun — neuroartist; author of the "NeuroTrabun" course; creative director; Blogger 0:00 Start 05:30 Types of Quarrels 09:13 "If you realize you're angry about socks, then everything's broken a long time ago" 11:07 Quarrels as an act of love 13:28 False goals in conflict 16:33 Who is usually to blame for a quarrel 19:43 Correct goals in conflict 24:15 How to resolve conflicts 32:20 Reframing a quarrel 38:30 Sex as atonement 40:30 "Punishment is not communication between adults" 46:04 Useful books 46:26 What cannot be forgiven 59:50 When a partner is dangerous 1:08:37 How not to quarrel 1:15:53 ​​Sex and quarrels Quarrels in relationships