How to Write SPICY Scenes That Are NOT Cringy In Romance šŸŒ¶ļøšŸ‘€

Learn how to write intimate scenes—or as it's commonly known in the book world, spice—in your romance books that are not cringy and don't pull readers out of the story. This is hard to do. I'm a book girly and love a good spicy book, but it's hard to pull off spice that feels earned and doesn't make me want to fast forward through the chapter because of the second hand embarrassment. So when I decided I was going to include spice in my most recent novel, I set out to determine what it was about certain scenes that made them not cringy so I could replicate certain things—and this is what I learned. -- Subscribe to my channel for weekly videos sharing actionable writing tips that helped me improve as a writer. šŸŽ¬ VIDEOS YOU WILL LIKE: How to write YEARNING in romance -    • HowĀ toĀ WriteĀ YEARNINGĀ inĀ RomanceĀ ā¤ļøā€šŸ”„Ā Ā  Stop writing boring plots (AKA, cause and effect):    • STOPĀ WRITINGĀ BORINGĀ PLOTSĀ Ā  SUBSCRIBE TO MY CHANNEL: Ā Ā Ā /Ā writewithclairefraiseĀ Ā  šŸ‘» READ THEY STAY (book 1 in my paranormal thriller series and won the Grand Prize at the 2023 Writer’s Digest Self Published Book Awards): Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/They-Stay-Susp... Barnes & Noble: https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/they... Add on GOODREADS: Ā Ā /Ā they-stayĀ Ā  SUBSCRIBE TO MY MAILING LIST: https://bit.ly/3zFpz0l šŸ˜€ CONNECT WITH ME: MAILING LIST: https://bit.ly/3zFpz0l EMAIL ME: [email protected] WEBSITE: https://www.clairefraise.com/​​​​​​ TIKTOK (where I’m most active other than YouTube): https://www.tiktok.com/@clairefraisea... INSTAGRAM: Ā Ā /Ā clairefraiseauthorĀ Ā  FACEBOOK: Ā Ā /Ā clairefraiseauthorĀ Ā  PINTEREST: Ā Ā /Ā clairefraisebooksĀ Ā  GOODREADS: Ā Ā /Ā 14193771.claire_fraiseĀ Ā  ABOUT: Hi, I'm Claire! I’m an award-winning self-published author of paranormal thriller books (my book "They Stay" won the Grand Prize at the 2023 Writer's Digest Self-Published Book Awards and is the first in a five-book series). There is no one way to write a book. I’m a strong believer that the only way to develop your own writing process is by trying a bunch of different methods to find out what is the most helpful to you. In my videos, I share how I approach every stage in my writing process, from brainstorming to editing, in the hope that it could give you something to try that could help you level up as a writer. I share techniques that have improved my own writing so you can see if the same strategies help you.

How to Write YEARNING in Romance ā¤ļøā€šŸ”„
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How to Write YEARNING in Romance ā¤ļøā€šŸ”„

The Secret to Writing Slow Burn ROMANCE (spoiler: it's simpler than you think) šŸ‘©ā€ā¤ļøā€šŸ’‹ā€šŸ‘Ø
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How NOT to Write Women: 9 Cringey Mistakes

9 Male Character Mistakes That Scream ā€œA Woman Wrote Thisā€
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9 Male Character Mistakes That Scream ā€œA Woman Wrote Thisā€

Writing Sex Scenes Without Cringe: What Actually Works in Fiction
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Writing Sex Scenes Without Cringe: What Actually Works in Fiction

Trends in Fantasy & Romantasy Books That Are No Longer Working
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Trends in Fantasy & Romantasy Books That Are No Longer Working

Writing Romance Arcs
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Writing Romance Arcs

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How to Write Good BANTER šŸ’¬ - The ONE RULE You Need to Follow to Write Natural Dialogue

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10 Lessons I Learned From Writing a Five-Book Series

What's WRONG With American Schools?
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What's WRONG With American Schools?

How Bridgerton Changed Its Characters (and That One Controversial Scene) | Book vs Show
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How Bridgerton Changed Its Characters (and That One Controversial Scene) | Book vs Show

How to Write ENEMIES-TO-LOVERS Romance - Structure, Tips, and Things to Avoid āš”ļøā¤ļøā€šŸ”„
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How to Write ENEMIES-TO-LOVERS Romance - Structure, Tips, and Things to Avoid āš”ļøā¤ļøā€šŸ”„

How to write slow-burn romance…that will make your readers fall in love šŸ˜
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7 Cringey MISTAKES Writers Make with MALE Characters
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7 Cringey MISTAKES Writers Make with MALE Characters

Want to Write Dark Romance? Use this Beat Sheet to Draft Quickly
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Want to Write Dark Romance? Use this Beat Sheet to Draft Quickly

7 Signs Your Character is a Mary Sue
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7 Signs Your Character is a Mary Sue

"Who did this to you?" TROPE ANALYSIS - Why is it so popular?
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"Who did this to you?" TROPE ANALYSIS - Why is it so popular?

5 Tips for Writing Enemies-to-Lovers Romance
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5 Tips for Writing Enemies-to-Lovers Romance

Deeply Problematic Romance Tropes We NEED To Leave Behind
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Deeply Problematic Romance Tropes We NEED To Leave Behind

šŸ’• 10 tips for writing swoon-worthy romance arcs
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šŸ’• 10 tips for writing swoon-worthy romance arcs