NotSelf Conditioning and Circuitry Differences in Relationship

In this episode Richard Beaumont responds to questions about the Undefined Center conditioning and how to deal with it. Also if someone has completrely different Circuitry to us, can this be an irreconciable issue in a relationship? Richard also discusses if our chart can tell us what we are designed to do in order to bring in a material income that fits with us. 00:07 What does it mean Open Centers give us wisdom? Should we get in trouble to find out or avoid it? Also is Sacral Open or Solar Plexus Open a stronger attractor? For example, I'm far more conditioned to desire and lust than to emotional drama. 03:59 In my own Human Design journey, I've come to wonder if much of what Human Design calls the "not self" can also be understood as a dysregulated nervous system. The more people I see diving deeper into their charts and doing genuine self-reflection, the more I notice a common thread: many of us were operating from old survival patterns, conditioning, and nervous system responses that became our normal. I also believe emotional openness doesn't have to mean being overwhelmed by emotions. The real growth comes from learning how to work with emotions wisely, feeling them, listening to them, and communicating them responsibly rather than unconsciously lashing out and hurting others. That, to me, is where both healing and maturity begin. 09:00 So yeah, we have to accept the way we are and not be someone we're not, to appease the other. That goes against the grain. I once had a r'ship with an incredible guy. Fun, gorgeous, [handsome], French. Despite our considerable age difference.... great when you're the older woman(!).... I realised we'd have been drawn to each other regardless, as we had no less than 7 electro-magnetics between us! We did split up. I'd like to quote from Richard Rudd's book 'Circuitry' "Circuitry never lies, but neither can you change a person's inherent nature. SOMETIMES DIFFERENCES REALLY ARE IRRECONCILABLE." Is Richard right? How many romantic r'ships are there between people with different circuitry? Gotta be a LOT! Most??? Or are some combos easier than others? I always feel that with understanding on both sides and accepting aspects that we cannot change, a r'ship could work…. 12:34 Once we begin to understand our Open Centers and what we are NOT and how Conditioning affects us in these areas, how do we begin to learn what areas of natural talents or strengths we DO have? Not what Conditioning has 'told us we are'? I have so many interests and am never bored but I have never found my professional 'niche' which has meant very uninspiring and not really 'correct' jobs that are just for survival in the material world. Can you please assist with any ideas for discovering what we ARE good at as we continue our Experiment? An thought-provoking video for everyone who is engaged in their de-conditioning process or is in a 'difficult' relationship. I would love to read any of your thoughts or experiences that you have gained through the study of your own Human Design chart. I'm open to your questions and suggestions for new topics for my videos. Share with me in the comments below! If you have a question for Richard, please enter it in the comments section also. If you do not wish to enter your date, time and place of birth for Richard to create a chart, then you can email the question to [email protected] Please put YOU TUBE QUESTION in the subject heading. Get your own FREE Personal report: https://human.design/reports/free-report Invest in a full Advanced report (approx 140+ pages) on your Design: https://human.design/reports Try out Richard’s new Human Design app: https://humandesignrave.com Main Website: https://human.design Learn directly from Richard's Educational Programs: https://www.human.design Analyst Training: https://school.human.design Look up your own Profile: https://human.design/videos Get your own copy of The Rave I Ching here: https://human.design/books/the-comple... YOU TUBE VIDEOS: How to Expand through Conditioning    • How to Expand through Conditioning   Difficulties in Relationships    • Difficulties in Relationships according to...   How to Make Money through your Design    • How to Make Money Using Your Human Design   RESOURCES: https://human.design/reports https://human.design/daily-impact https://human.design/free-resource-li... Richard is now available for a limited number of one-to-one readings once more. You can book a session here: https://human.design/readings