How to feel more connected to your partner or child

Ever wonder why some moments with your child feel effortless and deeply connected — while others leave you drained, reactive, or misunderstood? In this episode, we break down the science behind why. Dr. Jessie Stern and psychologist Rachel Samson join Cindy to explore relational savouring, a simple yet powerful way to strengthen your bond by intentionally remembering moments of warmth, safety, and love. You’ll learn how this practice calms your nervous system, reduces stress, and builds emotional security — for both you and your child. They also unpack the role of temperament and sensitivity in relationships. Why do some people (and kids) feel everything more deeply? What does that mean for how we connect, comfort, and communicate? If you’ve ever said, “I wish I could stay calm when things get hard,” this conversation will give you the science and the self-awareness to start doing exactly that. Because connection isn’t about perfection, it’s about noticing, savouring, and showing up with compassion. Read their new book: Beyond Difficult: An attachment-based guide to dealing with challenging people Follow Rachel Samson Follow Dr. Jessie Stern Read the science article: Savouring interventions for mothers of young children: Mechanisms linking relational savouring and personal savouring to reflective functioning Listen to more podcast episodes: https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast...