What it REALLY Takes to Get in the MOOD at the SAME Time Ft. Elaine Welteroth & Jonathan Singletary

What does it take to get you in the mood? Maybe like some it’s strawberries and silk. Or maybe like many others, it’s a little more … nuanced than that. Jonathan Singletary and my husband Jared Brady teamed up to make a sexy song devoted to the women who do a lot and consequently, need a little more to get…there. When it comes to being horny aka getting in the mood, this conversation is often about what you can do to get there, but in this episode we go into what has to first be done, OR in some cases undone for it to become feasible for all parties. Getting horny seems simple when we look at it through a Super Bad lens, but when we insert real people with real lives we can appreciate this complex process that relies on an interplay of neurological, hormonal, emotional, and physiological cooperation. Thanks to Our Sponsors Ritual http://Ritual.com/LOVERS Ritual is offering my listeners 20% off during your first month FabFitFun http://FabFitFun.com/LOVERS Sign up at, customize your box, and get access to discounts up to 70% off on brands like Fenty, Free People, and Our Place - to name a few. Dipsea http://DipseaStories.com/LOVERS Dipsea is offering an extended 30 day FREE trial MOOD: https://linktr.ee/jsingletary Follow our guests Jonathan Singletary   / jonathansingletary   https://linktr.ee/jsingletary Elaine Welteroth   / elainewelteroth   https://www.washingtonpost.com/advice... Jared Brady   / enjoyjaredbrady   Follow Shan:   / shanboody   http://tiktok.com/shanboody    / @loversbyshan   Advertising & Other Inquiries: [email protected]

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