Is it right to ask a daughter before marriage?

Is it right to ask a daughter before marriage? #foryou #viral #betikahaq Islam mein shadi (Nikah) se pehle beti ki marzi aur uski ijazat lena **bohut zaroori aur lazmi hai. Islam ne aurat ko apna jeevan sathi chunne ya rishta pasand/napasand karne ka poora haq diya hai. 1.Qur'an aur Hadees ki Roshni Mein Hazrat Muhammad (S.A.W.) ne wazeh tor par fermaya hai ke beti ki ijazat ke bagair uski shadi nahi ki ja sakti. *Bakhra (Virgin) Beti:* Agar larki kuwari hai, toh us se ijazat li jaye gi. Us ki *khamoshi* (agar woh sharm ki wajah se chup rahe) ko bhi ijazat tasawwur kiya jata hai, bashartika woh is rishte se nakhush na ho. *Thayyiba (Widow/Divorced):* Agar larki ki pehle shadi ho chuki ho, toh us se saaf lafzon mein (zubani) ijazat lena zaroori hai. *Hadees-e-Mubarka:* "Kuwari larki ka nikah us ki ijazat (marzi) ke bagair na kiya jaye." Sahaba ne poocha: "Ya Rasoolullah! Us ki ijazat kaise maloom hogi?" Aap (S.A.W.) ne fermaya: "Us ka khamosh rehna (hi us ki ijazat hai)." (Sahih Bukhari) 2. Zabardasti ki Shadi Islam Mein Jayez Nahi Agar waldein (parents) beti ki marzi ke khilaf zabardasti uska nikah kar dete hain, toh Islam mein aise nikah ko *khatam (fasakh)* karne ka haq larki ke paas hota hai. Hadees mein aata hai ke ek larki Hazrat Aisha (R.A.) ke paas aayi aur kaha ke uske baap ne uski marzi ke khilaf uski shadi kar di hai. Jab Aap (S.A.W.) ko maloom hua, toh Aap ne us larki ko ikhtiyar diya ke woh chahe toh is shadi ko barqarar rakhe ya khatam kar de. Us larki ne kaha: "Main apne baap ke faisle ko qabool karti hoon, lekin main sab auraton ko ye batana chahti thi ke shadi ke mamle mein baap ko zabardasti ka koi haq nahi." 3. Waldein aur Beti ka Rishta Waldein ka kaam beti ke liye achha rishta dhoondna aur use achhi naseehat karna hai. Lekin aakhri faisla beti ki marzi ke mutabiq hona chahiye. *Dostana Mahool:* Shadi se pehle beti ko aitmad mein lena chahiye taake woh khul kar apni raye de sake. *Dua aur Istikhara:* Rishta tay karne se pehle beti ko khud bhi Istikhara karne aur sochne ka poora waqt dena chahiye. Khulasa (Conclusion) Beti se pochna sirf ek akhlaqi farz nahi, balki *Islami shariat ka ahem hukam* hai. Beti ki marzi aur khushi ke bagair kiya gaya nikah Islami usoolon ke khilaf hai. ASSLAM O ALIKOM , YouTube channel managed by the official team of Hazrat Sahabi, representing the Islamic scholar, Tehree, Speaker and spiritual leader we are uploading the lectures of the Holy Quran, Hadith and the History of Islam We try to publish or, Upload speeches on the topic of Islamic way of life, The Spiritual Lives of the Prophets, Companions and Saints of Allah,