זה הדבר שמקצר לאנשים את החיים בלי שהם שמים לב | הרב איתי בן אהרון

A fascinating and moving Torah lesson from Rabbi Itay Ben Aharon on the parsha of Matot Masei, which examines in depth the tremendous power our words have. Did you know that excessive idle talk can shorten a person's days? And how guarding your mouth can ensure that every prayer of yours is immediately accepted in heaven? In this lesson, the Rabbi reveals the words of the Sages and Tzadkiim (the Maharash, the Hidda, and more) about "Let His word not begin," alongside amazing and soul-warming stories that show how every word that comes out of our mouths creates reality. Watch the lesson, share with friends, and don't forget to subscribe to the channel and click the bell 🔔 to stay updated on future lessons! 📌 Table of Contents by Exact Timestamps: [00:00] - Opening of the lesson: The teachings of Rabban Yochanan ben Zakkai and the question of the true language of conversation on everyday conversation. [03:12] - What is the exact definition of "idle conversation"? (And the words of Maimonides in the Laws of Opinion). [07:18] - The Great Secret of Elevating a Soul: Why is it Worth Receiving Good Guidance in Memory of a Deceased? [07:25] - The 10 Commandments of the Amora (Walking Upright, Covering the Head, and the Prohibition of a Seudat Hash). [14:25] - Why are glasses and a mikveh an excellent combination for protecting the eyes? 😉 [16:12] - The prohibition of standing for prayer from idle talk or news - and how does it block the intention? [17:26] - The story of Baba Meir and Baba Elazar zt"l: The special place in the synagogue next to someone who does not speak. [18:24] - The Scroll of the Setherim by Rabbi Yehuda Fatia zt"l on the process of redemption and the end of days. [19:41] - The depth of the verse "He shall not begin his word" - the connection between the shavuot and the days among the Egyptians. [20:20] - The moving and chilling story of the mother in Russia, her sons who learned Torah in secret, and the promise that must be kept. [25:20] - How does the story of the mother relate to the promise of the Holy One, blessed be He, to bring the Messiah? [26:16] - The story of the Rabbi of Ponivez (Rabbi Kahaneman) who ate alone on Rosh Hashanah because of one word he uttered. [27:18] - The words of Rabbi Avraham Pelaji and the Arizal: Why does excessive idle talk shorten a person's days? [29:23] - Why did women receive 9 kabin of conversation, and how does this relate to correcting the sin of the Tree of Knowledge and Eve? [31:00] - The words of the Chida: How do our words create angels in heaven (and why are prayers sometimes blocked?). [35:09] - The Arizal's advice and the Maharach's article in Shaar Ruach HaKodesh: How to reach high spiritual attainments? [39:26] - The virtue of a 40-day fast of speech (led by Rabbi Hanoch Karlenstein zt"l). [40:15] - 4 powerful virtues (according to the Ari) that will cause your soul to ascend to the upper worlds at night. [43:13] - The empowering story of Rabbi Shach zt"l, the nurse in the hospital and the prohibition of smoking on Shabbat. [44:33] - The story of the Chofetz Chaim who fled from a synagogue because of one word of slander. [48:47] - The words of the Shiurim collection: Why is our mouth a sharp knife that cuts through reality? [50:07] - The amazing story of Rabbi Elchanan Wasserman zt"l and the boy who lost the feeling in his hands. [50:38] - The secret by virtue of which the first ones were granted immediate acceptance of their prayers! (From the main author Hochma). [51:30] - The dream of the sage Rabbi Yehuda bar Shushan, whose beard shone like a torch of fire due to the virtue of silence. [52:24] - A summary and blessing on the occasion of the celebration of the Ramak (Rabbi Moshe Cordoviro) who fell ill on this day. From today, you can listen to all of the Rabbi's lessons via the kosher phone - no need to go to YouTube Dial 0796065479 ext. 2