Ask Alli: My Boyfriend's Small Pen Is a Mighty Sword And I Told My Friends

What would you do if your man came home early with a romantic surprise after repeatedly saying, "I hate surprises?" The letter writer asks Alli Breen and the gang if it was a strategy to catch her cheating. The next letter writer has a baby by a stripper and wants to know how mom and dad met. Should he tell the kid the truth? Lastly, we weigh in on a girlfriend who told her friends about her boyfriend's small you-know-what.