Как нарцисс делает из вас сумасшедшего монстра

Free Sprint "DAD" https://t.me/codeA8/743 April 20th Intensive "Dad! Mom! Me! Inner Family Architecture!" https://t.me/codeA8/703    • Токсичная мать: что она сделала с вашим мо...      • 5 навыков жизни, которые у вас украли роди...   12 Questions after the podcast - https://t.me/codeA8/222 Yesterday you were his perfect muse, and today he stands there with an icy face, filming your tears on his phone, and calling you a crazy hysteric. Sound familiar? The scariest thing about a relationship with a narcissist is the moment when you yourself begin to believe that you are the monster and destroyer in your family. In this episode, I, clinical psychologist Alex Hunt, dissect the cruel mechanism of role reversal. Without "toxic positivity," we will combine the cold theory of Sam Vaknin, Psychodynamics and schema therapy to permanently relieve you of the suffocating guilt for your nervous breakdowns. In these 25 minutes, I will fulfill 5 promises: I will explain the concept of "Projective Identification"—how he exports his inner madness into your head. I will reveal the mechanism of "Entraining"—why he methodically and cold-bloodedly drives you to hysteria. I will demonstrate the clinical difference between true abuse and your "Reactive Aggression" (you're not a psychopath, you were fighting for oxygen). I will analyze the "Smear Campaign"—why he needs "flying monkeys" and why it's absolutely impossible to justify yourself to them. I will give a professorial workshop on "The Vow of Silence"—how to break his direction and restore your good name. You're not hysterical. Your rage was your defense. It's time to stop acting in his films. Movie. 👇 USEFUL LINKS: Schedule a consultation: https://myhealing.tilda.ws Free resources: https://tinyurl.com/4dpjn438 If this video opened your eyes, forward it to someone who is currently burning with shame over their own breakdown! By Alex Hunt, Clinical Psychologist. Timecodes: 0:00 Have you ever seen yourself in a narcissist's phone and believed them? 0:38 Why they are completely calm while you cry? 1:14 A scalpel instead of cotton wool: 5 things that will ruin their script 2:43 The nuclear reactor inside a narcissist: what they are hiding and why it's your problem 3:29 Project identification: how they literally put their monster costume on you 4:05 Victoria's story: a cool-headed lawyer who smashed three Plates 6:01 Training: Why Your Body Reacts to Him Before He Opens His Mouth 8:14 Marina's Story: A Car, a Traffic Jam, and a Perfectly Planned Moment 9:53 Why You're Starting to Think You're a Narcissist 10:27 Reactive Aggression: Two Words That Absolve You of Guilt Forever 11:00 A Healthy Dog Is Poked with a Stick for 3 Hours—It Will Bite. Does That Make It Rabid? 12:17 Svetlana's Story: 5 Years Without Sleep and One Palm Slap as "Proof" 13:38 Why a Knockdown Is Called a Knockdown, and a Breakdown in an Abusive Relationship Is Called Psychopathy 14:07 Why He Needs an Audience: A Smear Campaign as a Preemptive Strike 16:08 Flying Monkeys and Your Subordination Scheme: Why You Run and Make Excuses 17:15 The More She Proved, the Crazier looked 17:35 How to stop losing a round before it even starts 19:21 Paradoxical agreement: the phrase that destroys its matrix 20:07 The gray rock technique: why most people can't handle the peak 21:42 A director without an actress is just a man with a phone in an empty room 21:51 You are not a monster. You are in a concentration camp without oxygen 23:35 Where to go if you can't wash away shame alone DISCLAIMER The information in this podcast is for educational and informational purposes only. It is not a substitute for professional psychological or psychotherapeutic help, diagnosis, or treatment. Viewing or listening to this content does not establish a therapeutic "psychologist-client" relationship. If you are experiencing psychological difficulties, experiencing a crisis, or need professional support, please contact a licensed psychologist, psychotherapist, or other qualified mental health professional in your country. Legal issues: Any reference to legal matters (divorce, child custody, protection from violence, property disputes, etc.) does not constitute legal advice or recommendations for action. For qualified legal assistance, please contact licensed attorneys and lawyers in your country specializing in family law and civil rights protection. Examples and Cases: All stories, examples, and situations used in the podcast are generalized, composite, or fictitious for illustrative purposes. Any resemblance to actual people, events, or circumstances is entirely coincidental and unintentional.