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"He clearly walked away coolly, so why am I still chasing his shadow?" Immediately after a breakup, anyone would be consumed by a sense of injustice when seeing their ex posting happy photos with friends on social media while they are in excruciating pain. However, did you know that a man's breakup operates on a completely different 'system' than a woman's? Men are not the "lump-sum" type who consumes their emotions immediately; instead, they possess a "installment payment" system where they postpone their pain. That initial calmness is not genuine; it is merely a "fake peace" created by forcibly pushing the surging emotions to the back of their minds. Today, we will thoroughly dissect the terrible cognitive dissonance that occurs in their brains when we cut off contact first and maintain "perfect silence," as well as the three critical timings when they simply cannot endure it and truly crumble.